Please pray for me- feeling alone and left out

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Hi friends. I am new here and the main reason I joined was to have a support group I can pray with and pray for

I need your prayers and words of encouragement please. Lately I've been feeling alone, feeling left out by friends and feeling like I'll never be able to sustain a relationship. I have come to realise that I don't have many friends, and the few 'friends' I do have generally leave me out or I'll find out that they are not as genuine as I would have initially thought. Because of bad experiences with friends in the past, I have developed trust issues and always think the worst of people. The problem is I only have 2 or 3 friends. Although they do leave me out, it does not help that I do not have any trust in me so if I did meet friends I could be close to this is still a huge problem. Sometimes I think I am cursed (I know, I know, I am Christian and should not think like that but the sad reality is that I do). I have no close friends, no relationship and feel so alone, my heart hurts as I don't know where my life is going...everyone needs people who are truly there, not just acquaintances.
 

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My thoughts and prayers are with you. Heavenly Father, let this one know that You love her and that she can come here anytime and there will always be friends here. Embrace her Father with Your love and peace. Bring those in her path that will become true friends, sincere and loyal, if it only be one or two. May she always feel welcome and included in their plans, and may they feel the same way about her. Thank You Heavenly Father for enabling her to reach out for help, though she will never be alone, because You are with her always, In Jesus Name, Amen
 
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Hi friends. I am new here and the main reason I joined was to have a support group I can pray with and pray for

I need your prayers and words of encouragement please. Lately I've been feeling alone, feeling left out by friends and feeling like I'll never be able to sustain a relationship. I have come to realise that I don't have many friends, and the few 'friends' I do have generally leave me out or I'll find out that they are not as genuine as I would have initially thought. Because of bad experiences with friends in the past, I have developed trust issues and always think the worst of people. The problem is I only have 2 or 3 friends. Although they do leave me out, it does not help that I do not have any trust in me so if I did meet friends I could be close to this is still a huge problem. Sometimes I think I am cursed (I know, I know, I am Christian and should not think like that but the sad reality is that I do). I have no close friends, no relationship and feel so alone, my heart hurts as I don't know where my life is going...everyone needs people who are truly there, not just acquaintances.


I will pray for a close friend to come into your life. I shall pray for your cynical heart, may the Holy Spirit give you joy, optimism and hope for the future.

May I ask if you are involved with a local church? Usually there are group events for people of all walks of life.
 
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I have no close friends, no relationship and feel so alone, my heart hurts as I don't know where my life is going...everyone needs people who are truly there, not just acquaintances.

Thank You Heavenly Father for enabling her to reach out for help, though she will never be alone, because You are with her always, In Jesus Name, Amen

I will pray for a close friend to come into your life. I shall pray for your cynical heart, may the Holy Spirit give you joy, optimism and hope for the future.

Natalie, welcome to the forum! you are among friends here, I join with my prayer partners, that you will really feel the blessings of the Lord,
as you thank him he will pour joy into your heart,
he loves you so much, he gave his only Son to die for you!
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Dear sis, hugs to you. You are welcome here. I understand where you are coming from. Trust can be difficult to build if the past shows you that you may not have trusted the right kind of people. But the Lord sees you and knows all about your needs. He is your very present help. Praying for you that you meet people who will show you the value of friendship and help mend your heart. Blessings.
 
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Hi friends. I am new here and the main reason I joined was to have a support group I can pray with and pray for

I need your prayers and words of encouragement please. Lately I've been feeling alone, feeling left out by friends and feeling like I'll never be able to sustain a relationship. I have come to realise that I don't have many friends, and the few 'friends' I do have generally leave me out or I'll find out that they are not as genuine as I would have initially thought. Because of bad experiences with friends in the past, I have developed trust issues and always think the worst of people. The problem is I only have 2 or 3 friends. Although they do leave me out, it does not help that I do not have any trust in me so if I did meet friends I could be close to this is still a huge problem. Sometimes I think I am cursed (I know, I know, I am Christian and should not think like that but the sad reality is that I do). I have no close friends, no relationship and feel so alone, my heart hurts as I don't know where my life is going...everyone needs people who are truly there, not just acquaintances.
I like you have no close friends and lonely. I even tried volunteering in church, going to bible studies group yet I feel something is missing and no close friendships have ever developed. I of course tried to get close to others but I eventually discovered they appear not as genuine as I once thought.
Neither do I have a best friend.

The closest person I would have as close friend is not even Christian and not interested in being a Christian.

Yet when I was not a Christian I had several people in my life where I felt I had a close friendship with.

Anyway I will pray for you. Pray that you will develop good friendships especially from fellow Christians and people will be drawn to you.

For me what helps is spending time with the Lord and reading the bible.
 
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