Hey guys,
So this is kind of awkward for me because.. I don't usually post my problems on here. I'm more of a 'encourage and pray for others' type of person on this site.
Here's my situation: I've been having these nagging feelings but I've always pushed them back to the back burner of my mind. These thoughts/feelings are: "wow, I actually don't have any legit genuine friends at age 27". I have a few close online friends whom I consider legit genuine friends..but what I mean is..I don't have friends who live close to me that I can hang out with. I've been helping 2 close classmates in College with homework and studying for tests.. but I feel kind of..used. See because there's a 'close-inner circle of friends [whether that consists of one or more] and then there's not so close friends, school friends, coworker friends..acquaintances..etc. But it's not the intimate type of friendship that I long for. Anyway, I think this is more of a vent and a mini pity party..' it just sucks to be honest. I genuinely had thought they were my friends.
But if I were to ask for advice, my question would be..how did you find your close Christian friends that you frequently hang out with/help encourage and build each other up? Did you find them at youth groups? At Church? Through mutual friends? Whatever bit of advice you have for me relating to true genuine friends [in real life] would be helpful. : )
So this is kind of awkward for me because.. I don't usually post my problems on here. I'm more of a 'encourage and pray for others' type of person on this site.
Here's my situation: I've been having these nagging feelings but I've always pushed them back to the back burner of my mind. These thoughts/feelings are: "wow, I actually don't have any legit genuine friends at age 27". I have a few close online friends whom I consider legit genuine friends..but what I mean is..I don't have friends who live close to me that I can hang out with. I've been helping 2 close classmates in College with homework and studying for tests.. but I feel kind of..used. See because there's a 'close-inner circle of friends [whether that consists of one or more] and then there's not so close friends, school friends, coworker friends..acquaintances..etc. But it's not the intimate type of friendship that I long for. Anyway, I think this is more of a vent and a mini pity party..' it just sucks to be honest. I genuinely had thought they were my friends.
But if I were to ask for advice, my question would be..how did you find your close Christian friends that you frequently hang out with/help encourage and build each other up? Did you find them at youth groups? At Church? Through mutual friends? Whatever bit of advice you have for me relating to true genuine friends [in real life] would be helpful. : )