Left behind...

Darth Bagel said:

I didn't know she left, bummer

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Yup, she met some guy and ran away into the sunset. I'm pleased for her, but I still miss my little mate. She was proper down with my humour as well. She always got it.

(Just so we're clear, I mean the British term for mate. I know it means something very different in the US. Ha ha!)

Swan7 said:

Yes! God is Awesome

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Indeed!

Is off to have a look at this marriage section > . <

ReesePiece23 said:

Yup, she met some guy and ran away into the sunset. I'm pleased for her, but I still miss my little mate. She was proper down with my humour as well. She always got it.

(Just so we're clear, I mean the British term for mate. I know it means something very different in the US. Ha ha!)

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I tend to think of "mate" in British terms anyway.

GQ Chris said:

On the singles forum, some singles eventually meet someone(get married) and leave the singles forum. Are you afraid of being Left Behind?

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No, given my having Been-There-Done-That already.

As it is, whenever I hear of someone getting married, I'm
torn as to whether to offer congratulations or condolences.

Not that marriage was all that bad in my case; I was quite
content with it for a long time. But, being single, by contrast,
seems to suit my personality better.


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GQ Chris said:

Are you uni-sexual ?

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It doesn't bother me, I'm happy for those who find someone on here and get married, or those who find someone in their daily life who end up getting married.

I'll get my chance at being married at some point. I have faith and hope that it'll happen... eventually. I've been close to it happening a time or two, so I know it's possible. lol

GQ Chris said:

Are you uni-sexual ?

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?

LadyOfMystery said:

I'll get my chance at being married at some point. I have faith and hope that it'll happen... eventually.

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It will, so enjoy being single while it lasts. Because there's no going back once you've put the ring on. (No, you lot don't think about that part do you? Nooo.)

ReesePiece23 said:

It will, so enjoy being single while it lasts. Because there's no going back once you've put the ring on. (No, you lot don't think about that part do you? Nooo.)

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I think about that part, and I do enjoy being single, and I want being married to come naturally and God driven - not forced or move to fast kind of situation. I don't think a lot of people think about that part, they want to be married SO much and then it happens and then they're still not happy because they miss some kind of freedom they had before. So I agree, enjoy being single, because even if you're just dying to get married, it's a commitment you shouldn't take lightly.

LadyOfMystery said:

I think about that part, and I do enjoy being single, and I want being married to come naturally and God driven - not forced or move to fast kind of situation. I don't think a lot of people think about that part, they want to be married SO much and then it happens and then they're still not happy because they miss some kind of freedom they had before. So I agree, enjoy being single, because even if you're just dying to get married, it's a commitment you shouldn't take lightly.

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Completely agree. I am enjoying the parts of my singleness that I know I can't get back once I'm married. Of course there are still things you can do in marriage that you do as a single person now, but some things you can't. Enjoy those while you still have them. Once I am married there will be no talk of divorce.

ReesePiece23 said:

It's just the random thought patterns and the off the wall threads. They're sheer brilliance and very similar.



Not me. Even if I WAS married I'd most likely never declare it anyway. It's none of anyone's business and I like posting here.

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Do they allowed that here? I mean we are Christians and we shouldn't lie. But it tactically isn't lying if we never declare our marriage.

And nope I am not married yet.

Swan7 said:

I really do get what you're saying I understand completely.

I would totally post there if I was married because you never know who you might reach (God working through you, of course) and those who do read it with understanding might never post, but have helped that person. Know what I mean?

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I was there and, even as a single person, tried to give some advises. But as it is I just don't feel I am making any impact.

What I often see is that a person on the verge of divorce post his/her point of view on the problems. And often the case the blame game was played so as it was described that person did absolutely nothing wrong. And as such there is nothing that person can do. And then he/she ask for advice on how to fix his/her marriage.

So they are on the verge of divorce, they did nothing wrong and there is nothing they can do. So then why are they even on there to ask for advice?

It would have helped if they ask for opinions earlier. And if they realize their own faults in their relationships earlier. And they actively make the adjustments needed to grow together with their spouse.

CCHIPSS said:

I was there and, even as a single person, tried to give some advises. But as it is I just don't feel I am making any impact.

What I often see is that a person on the verge of divorce post his/her point of view on the problems. And often the case the blame game was played so as it was described that person did absolutely nothing wrong. And as such there is nothing that person can do. And then he/she ask for advice on how to fix his/her marriage.

So they are on the verge of divorce, they did nothing wrong and there is nothing they can do. So then why are they even on there to ask for advice?

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That's really unfortunate....