Thanks - you are the only one (I believe) actually answered this question. Here is what I believe the relevant part of your answer:
You appear to be basically agreeing with Paul that judgment / punishment is really only meted out in the future, although Jesus spoke of it (at least with respect to the rich man in the Luke 16 account) as though it was happening in the present (Jesus's "present"). And you resolve that apparent contradiction by basically saying that when Jesus speaks of events in the present, He can be understood as referring to events in the future, just as Jesus considers his "present" existence to include his "past pre-Abraham" existence.
That seems awfully contrived to me: you have a difficult challenge of to solve:
1. The rich man is described by Jesus as already in torment in flames;
2. Paul writes of judgment only meted out in the future.
...and your answer appear to be to say that when Jesus refers to the "present" (i.e. the rich man is presently in flames in the Luke 16 account) He can be understood as referring to the future instead.
First, that casts Jesus in the position of saying things that would almost universally misunderstood by His audience - if Jesus says that something that is already happening - and, in fact, it will not happen for thousands of years - how is Jesus not misleading people? Perhaps I can agree that to Jesus, the present and the future collapse together.
But, and this is key, this would not be true for His listeners - they would very reasonably assume that when Jesus says the rich man is currently in flames, then he is indeed currently in flames. This is where I think your argument is particularly vulnerable: Jesus is not talking to Himself (Jesus, being as you say, able to see the future and the present as "contemporaneous"); He is speaking to others who surely will not have that mindset.
Of course, it always possible that I have misunderstood your argument. If so, please set me straight.
John Gill Commentary on the Whole Bible
and was carried by the angels into Abraham's bosom: by Abraham's bosom is meant heaven, a phrase well known to the Jews, by which they commonly expressed the happiness of the future state: of Abraham's happy state they had no doubt; and when they spake of the happiness of another's, they sometimes signified it by going to Abraham; as when the mother of the seven sons, slain by Caesar, saw her youngest going to be sacrificed (p).
"she fell upon him, and embraced him, and kissed him, and said unto him, my son, לך אצל אברהם אביכם, "go to Abraham, your father", and tell him, thus saith my mother, &c.''
and sometimes, as here, by being in his bosom. So it is said (q), that Eliezer his servant (Abraham's, the same name with Lazarus) מונה בחיקו, "is laid in his bosom": and which may refer to the account in the Talmud (r), that when R. Benaah, the painter of caves, came to the cave of Abraham, he found Eliezer, the servant of Abraham, דקאי קמיה, "standing before him". And it is also said (s) of Rabbi, when he died, היום יושב בחיקו של אברהם, "this day he sits in the bosom of Abraham"; for as it was usual with them to represent the joys of heaven by a feast, so the partaking of them, by sitting down at a table with Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob; see Matthew 8:11 and as their manner at meals was by lying along on couches at eating; he that lay next another might be said to lie, or lean, in his bosom: hence Abraham's bosom came to signify the near and intimate enjoyment of happiness with him in the other world.
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the Jews [say], that when good men die, their souls are immediately received by angels, and taken under their care, and carried to heaven. So one of their paraphrasts (t) having mentioned the garden of Eden, which is but another name for heaven with them, adds,
"into which no man can enter but the righteous, whose souls are "carried" thither, ביד מלאכיא, "in the hand", or "by the means" of angels.''
And elsewhere they say (u),
"with the Shekinah come three ministering angels to receive the soul of a righteous man.''
Particularly it is said of Moses, at the time of his death (w), that
"the holy blessed God descended from the highest heavens, to take the soul of Moses, and three ministering angels with him.''
And sometimes they say (x), not only three angels, but three companies of angels attend at such a time: their words are these;
"when a righteous man departs out of the world, three companies of ministering angels meet him; one says to him, "come in peace"; and another says, "walking in his uprightness" and the other says, "he shall enter into peace", &c.''
…Moreover, no mention is made of the rich man being carried by angels, as Lazarus was; and if he was, he was carried, not by the good, but by the evil angels, and not into Abraham's bosom, but to hell. So the Jews (y) say,
"if a soul is worthy, how many holy troops, or companies, are ready to join it, and bring it up into paradise? but if not worthy, how many strange troops are ready to bring it in the way of hell? these are the troops of the destroying angels.''
However, this is said of him, as is not of Lazarus,
(p) Echa Rabbati, fol. 49. 4. (r) T. Bab. Bava Bathra, fol. 58. 1. (s) T. Bab. Kiddushin, fol. 72. 2. Juchasin, fol. 75. 2. (t) Targum in Cant. iv. 12. (u) Midrash Haneelam in Zohar in Gen. fol. 65. 1. (w) Debarim Rabba, sect. 11. fol. 245. 4. (x) T. Bab. Cetubot, fol. 104. 1. (y) Zohar in Exod. fol. 39. 3.