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They don't because there is no connection.
Scripture does not say "a woman must not be an elder." It certainly doesn't say "a woman must not be an elder because the Minister represents Christ, the husband and bridegroom who is a man."



Christ's example of how he treated women was that he loved, forgave, healed them, restored their self-esteem, listened to them, allowed them to speak for him and to be the first witness to his resurrection.



He IS head of the church!! How many more times do you want me to say it?
But he appoints human leaders to look after all the local groups and congregations in his church. You may belong to a church which teaches that the Minister/Pastor is God, but I can assure you that they're not. I don't think you'd find any Ministers who believed that they are Christ; if you did, I'd say avoid them. At best that would be a case for the psychiatrists; at worst, it's spiritual pride. Look what happened to King Herod when he accepted people's worship and believed he was God - Acts 12.



Don't be rude.
The example that God and Christ have made clear: is Christ (a man) over the church. It is a misrepresentation of Christ to portray it in any other way - anything else portrays the church over all, and is a contrary disservice.

But, hey, do whatever you think is best...and you can sort it out when you see Him. Meanwhile, I have told you the truth.
 
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It also does not say that we must not inject Heroine into our veins, drive on the left side of the road (unless you're British, of course) . . .

However, it DOES prescribe (say) that men are to be elders, not women. Not only does it say so explicitly, it does so simplicity from beginning to end endorse and prescribe male leadership in home, temple, church.
That thinking brings up a LOT of questions for women. I haven't had a single one of my questions on the subject answered so far. Care to try? Even one?

First, think like a woman.
 
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You think that's why "The Lord's Prayer" begins with "Our Father..." huh? Because Jesus was merely praying in the way that everyone there who asked him how to pray already did...and that the wording he chose shows us that he thought of God as some kind of non-specific entity that it was convenient to think of as "he?"

And that's far from being the only time he spoke of God in this way.

You're guessing at best, but it flies in the face of the New Testament in any case.

He, Jesus Christ, was naturally praying to God, HIS Father (and who could say that word and actually mean it more?), as a "he/a male authority figure", while living as a fellow human being, on earth. Following (most of) the traditions of humanity. It's not all that hard to follow is it, or am I talking funny or something? Why is it I understand what I am saying but nobody else seems to?

No, I'm not disputing Jesus always referred to God in the male gender = His Father, Our Father, etc. -- THE authority figure. Could He have been simply following the tradition of all humanity, while living like the rest of us humans on earth? And I don't consider what He said as "merely praying".

I don't see how "it", whatever this mysterious "it" is you keep mentioning, "flies in the face of the NT". That's rather generic phrasing to me, and its quite confusing. What, how, and why does "'it' fly in the face of the NT'", to wonder if Jesus was following our human tradition of addressing God as a male, Father or otherwise? I have never believed there's anything wrong with Him--or us--doing exactly that, if that is what a few of you men are pressing me about.
 
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That thinking brings up a LOT of questions for women. I haven't had a single one of my questions on the subject answered so far. Care to try? Even one?
First, think like a woman.
Seems to be the norm for the con side!
 
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Seems to be the norm for the con side!
I'm sure it happens on both "sides".

Stan, would YOU care to try answering my question about 1 Peter 2:9? Why are men and women bestowed with the Royal Priesthood from God, yet we are not allowed to hold the office or title because of our gender? Is one of God's gifts an empty promise--for women? Is it a paper tiger title, an honorary one or an actual one? Why?
 
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Stan, would YOU care to try answering my question about 1 Peter 2:9? Why are men and women bestowed with the Royal Priesthood from God, yet we are not allowed to hold the office or title because of our gender? Is one of God's gifts an empty promise--for women? Is it a paper tiger title, an honorary one or an actual one? Why?
Indeed this message of Peters was not directed at one gender but at the whole of Believers and as such establishes a definite egalitarianism amongst believers. Just as Jesus is our Royal High priests, we are a royal priesthood. There's nothing really hard about this unless of course you're predisposed to believing that God is Not egalitarian. There are definitely roles in the New Testament, but one of them is not male-only leadership.
 
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Stan,

Why did you 'stop' there???? Why didn't you offer the 'rest of the verses' that place the 'one' you offered in proper 'perspective'? You sure are a 'card' aren't you?

Ephesians 5:

21 Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.

22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.

23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.

24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.

Everything offered in the Bible speaks of women being under the authority of 'men' in the 'church'. Christ as the Head of man, man as the head of woman. But since so many seem oblivious, let me quote scripture:

1 Corinthians 11:3
But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.

I don't know how these words can be interpreted any differently than as they are 'offered'. Pretty clear. What is being spoken of is 'authority' so far as the use of the word: 'head'. This has nothing to do with Christ's blood being able to forgive sins. This directly about 'authority in the church'.

And until very recent history, 'all' societies on the face of this planet 'knew' this 'instinctively'. Born 'knowing' that the man is the head of the woman. Other than in legendary or 'fantasy' stories, men have 'always' been the 'authority' over women. That 'many women don't like it'? Oh well. That's not my problem. It's 'theirs'. Those that refute the authority of God, Christ or the apostles. Since Adam and Eve, God has instituted the 'authority' of men over women. Christ did not 'change this'. And anyone that even indicates such a thing is merely trying to deceive others.

1 Timothy 2:

9 In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;

10 But (which becometh women professing godliness) with good works.

11 Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection.

12 But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.

13 For Adam was first formed, then Eve.

14 And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression.

15 Notwithstanding she shall be saved in childbearing, if they continue in faith and charity and holiness with sobriety.

This is from the New Testament, not the Old. This is 'after' the resurrection, not before.

These words are pretty clear to me. In fact, I can't imagine a way to make them 'more' understandable. We are told the 'how' AND the 'why'. It doesn't really matter in an individual doesn't 'like it'. We, as followers are required to follow. And if one 'desires', TRULY desires to 'be' a 'follower', it is my opinion that following that which is 'righteous' will be something that they 'like'. Otherwise, it would be a 'burden' to follow. Following God through Christ is not a burden to them that 'truly believe'. It is simply what we will 'know' we are to do because we 'want to', not because we 'have to'.

It's not 'my job' to either 'allow' or 'prevent' a woman from being a 'leader of men'. But it IS my job to refuse to be a 'follower' of such a woman. If other men choose to be 'followers' of a 'woman', that is their folly, not mine.

I have simply done what I am able to show what scripture offers. Not 'my interpretation' for most of what I have offered has been offered perfectly clear without the 'need' for interpretation. Two plus two is four. Not need for interpretation. Simple understanding and acceptance. Not interpretation.

When Paul states that a 'church leader must be' the husband of one wife, I don't need to 'guess' at the meaning of these words. They are 'self explanatory'. They mean what they mean. A husband is 'a man'. Period. Nothing mystical or hidden in these words so far as what they 'mean'. So in order to insist that they mean something different than what they say is to deny what they mean and 'add' one's own definition or understanding. In essence, denying the obvious for the sake of 'oneself'. Following their 'own desires' instead of God's Word.

Paul offers more than 'once' that women are to remain 'silent' in the 'church'. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to recognize if they aren't even to 'speak' in 'the church', they obviously aren't capable of being 'church leaders' of 'any' true 'part of the Body of Christ'.

Are there 'groups' that 'call' themselves 'churches' that do not follow the Word of God? Oh my. More that 'don't' than that 'do'. So trying to say that there 'are' women pastors of 'churches' proves anything other than them 'not' being 'true' churches is merely 'self will'. itching ears.

2 Timothy 3:5
Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away.

You know, God punishes those that He loves that do not follow as instructed. His means of trying to 'save' those that He loves. Hoping that through chastisement, those that love Him will recognize the 'truth'. So if He is not 'punishing' those that allow women to be 'pastors' and follow such 'women', the obvious inference is that they don't even 'know God' or He them:

Matthew 7:

15 Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves.

16 Ye shall know them by their fruits. Do men gather grapes of thorns, or figs of thistles?

17 Even so every good tree bringeth forth good fruit; but a corrupt tree bringeth forth evil fruit.

18 A good tree cannot bring forth evil fruit, neither can a corrupt tree bring forth good fruit.

19 Every tree that bringeth not forth good fruit is hewn down, and cast into the fire.

20 Wherefore by their fruits ye shall know them.

(yet our 'woman preacher' here insists that we shouldn't make such judgments. That we should just 'trust' her when she says she was 'called by God' to be a minister. In utter contradiction to what we have been offered about what a 'church leader MUST BE).

21 Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that doeth the will of my Father which is in heaven.

22 Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wonderful works?

23 And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity.

Iniquity definition from Webster's:

1. (n.) Gross injustice; unfairness; wickedness; sin; as, the iniquity of bribery; the iniquity of an unjust judge.

Iniquity therefore would be any 'act' that is contrary to the 'truth'. If one does not 'know' that they are 'acting' in contradiction to the 'truth', it's one thing, but to 'know' and do it 'anyway'? That is utter rebellion against God Himself.

So, if God's Word states that women cannot be 'church leaders', to ignore this and pretend that it's 'ok' is gross iniquity.

I would say that churches that allow 'women' to be 'church leaders' are basically a 'part' of the groups mentioned here in Matthew 7. Bragging about 'using Christ's name', but don't even 'know Christ'. For if Christ doesn't 'know them', they obviously don't know Him. Just 'using His name' but their hearts being 'far, far from Him'.

So here is what I would offer to any and all that I would attempt to 'share my love with': Instead of trying to 'make up' your own 'religion', it would be much more wise to accept what we are offered and be followers of 'God' through His Son instead of ourselves and our own lusts. Pretty simple really. But not 'easy' for those that insist upon their 'own way' instead of God's way.

Blessings,

MEC
Sorry, I did NOT see an answer to my question about Eph 5:21.
 
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Sorry, I did NOT see an answer to my question about Eph 5:21.

I believe your answer lays in verse 22-24..From what i can see, your inference was that Ephesisans 5:21 in some way supports your position of female pastoral authority, whereas in all reality Ephesians chapter 5 makes a very clear case for female submission to male headship.
 
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I believe your answer lays in verse 22-24..From what i can see, your inference was that Ephesisans 5:21 in some way supports your position of female pastoral authority, whereas in all reality Ephesians chapter 5 makes a very clear case for female submission to male headship.
How exactly does the answer to my question of what Eph 5:21 says, find itself in Ephesians 5:22-24? You seem awfully hard pressed to answer that question.
 
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He, Jesus Christ, was naturally praying to God, HIS Father (and who could say that word and actually mean it more?), as a "he/a male authority figure", while living as a fellow human being, on earth.
You're trying your best to keep that argument alive, but it's still defective.

First, we had to point out that Jesus was not speaking of some vague concept he casually called "Father" or "He;" and now we have to point out that your idea here that he merely meant something about his own (and no one else's) heavenly Father similarly fails.

If you carefully consider the Bible passage and the Lord's Prayer itself, there's no denying that 1) he was asked by his disciples how THEY should pray--it wasn't the case that they were asking him to offer his own prayer there--and 2) not only does Jesus begin with the words "OUR Father" but goes on to praise and petition that Father in terms that are unmistakably about him being the Father of all.
 
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The example that God and Christ have made clear: is Christ (a man) over the church. It is a misrepresentation of Christ to portray it in any other way - anything else portrays the church over all, and is a contrary disservice.

But, hey, do whatever you think is best...and you can sort it out when you see Him. Meanwhile, I have told you the truth.
And this has nothing to do with female pastors.
 
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How exactly does the answer to my question of what Eph 5:21 says, find itself in Ephesians 5:22-24? You seem awfully hard pressed to answer that question.

Allow me to reiterate beacuse it seems u would prefer to make baseless insinuations rather than read the context of the posts (remember that this was my first post in this thread and as such you have no reasonable evidence to conclude that i am 'awfully hardpressed" to anything)...
You posted earlier stating that most men fail to follow or acknowledge the command in Ephesians 5:21 'submit yourselves to one another' (my paraphrase) as if it supported your conclusions about a female's pastoral eligibility , or at the very least as if it were a scriptural proof against male headship.
The problem with this reasoning is that the very next three verses are absolutely solid in their declaration of male headship. Unless your current insinuation is that u would brand Paul as woefully inconsistent. (He in another place has already established that a woman should not have authority over a man, and that verse which has also been provided by countless others here coupled with this discourse in Ephesians 5 seems to be entirely consistent with the general position that women should not seek headship over men)
I would like to add that in 1 Timothy 3:2-7 we find the qualifications for a Bishop (pastor) and among them we find 'One that ruleth well his own house'...Paul has already established in our focal text of Ephesians 5 that wives should not be in power above their husbands, therefore how then can it be argued that here the same Paul would mean to include women in this list of qualifications?
 
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The problem with this reasoning is that the very next three verses are absolutely solid in their declaration of male headship. Unless your current insinuation is that u would brand Paul as woefully inconsistent. (He in another place has already established that a woman should not have authority over a man, and that verse which has also been provided by countless others here coupled with this discourse in Ephesians 5 seems to be entirely consistent with the general position that women should not seek headship over men)

Except that can be easily answered by having man and wife ministry teams; husband as bishop/vicar, wife as vicar/curate. Or husband as curate, wife as lay preacher. This would fit with the situation in Acts 18 where Priscilla and Aquila taught Apollos.

But I'm sure that some who are against women being ordained would ignore this, point to 1 Timothy 2:12 and argue that they should be silent. In other words, find another reason for not allowing it.

I would like to add that in 1 Timothy 3:2-7 we find the qualifications for a Bishop (pastor) and among them we find 'One that ruleth well his own house'...Paul has already established in our focal text of Ephesians 5 that wives should not be in power above their husbands, therefore how then can it be argued that here the same Paul would mean to include women in this list of qualifications?

So if a man cannot rule his own house well, he can't be ordained. If he is not married, likes drink, has a temper and is not self controlled, he can't be ordained. In my experience, people ignore these other qualities that Paul lists and just focus on the gender issue.

It was still pretty much a male dominated society then; women may not have had the freedom to do these things or confidence to follow this calling. That doesn't mean it still applies today. We are not told this is a command forever and, whatever people say, I KNOW that the Lord calls some to be Ministers. He certainly calls some to be preachers. Does he go against his word? No. So the logical conclusion is that this teaching is not in his word.
But it seems some would rather dismiss all women preachers or Ministers as being as mistaken, or deluded rather than even consider the possibility. What it boils down to, maybe from both sides, is, "I'm right, I know how to read the Bible; you don't."
 
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Except that can be easily answered by having man and wife ministry teams; husband as bishop/vicar, wife as vicar/curate. Or husband as curate, wife as lay preacher. This would fit with the situation in Acts 18 where Priscilla and Aquila taught Apollos.
Except that this would be possible only in a church body that uses those terms in a very unhistoric or untraditional way. Depending on the denomination, you can't have a married bishop, or a vicar who isn't ordained, and a "lay preacher" is obviously just that--lay, not clergy. So if all those terms are rendered meaningless or interchangeable it doesn't seem as though there'd remain any need for there even to be a campaign to start having woman "pastors" or "priests" or "deacons" or "bishops."
 
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Except that this would be possible only in a church body that uses those terms in a very unhistoric or untraditional way. Depending on the denomination, you can't have a married bishop, or a vicar who isn't ordained, and a "lay preacher" is obviously just that--lay, not clergy. So if all those terms are rendered meaningless or interchangeable it doesn't seem as though there'd remain any need for there even to be a campaign to start having woman "pastors" or "priests" or "deacons" or "bishops."

What I'm saying is that it seems that this thread has become an argument against female Ministers on the grounds of headship - i.e man is head of women, so women can't be over men "in the church".
But that argument would be null and void if you had a female curate whose husband was a vicar, or whatever. An Anglican church near where we lasted lived, had exactly that; husband was the vicar and his wife a curate. This should satisfy those who use the headship argument - female ministry should be fine in these circumstances.
 
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So, are Paul's words and letters--which are part of the Bible that we Christians consider to be the revealed Word of God--optional or even wrong? If so, are we at liberty to discard any other parts of Holy Scripture on the basis that we don't care for the contents?
Paul occasionally does make the distinction between his divinely inspired words and his personal opinions. He didn't have to, but he did. Why? Was he suggesting that we differentiate between his "suggestions" and God's Word? Why? It's a concept people have pondered through the ages. Nothing new. Either position adds to or takes anything away from the Lord, because its not the Lord's words. Paul specifically says they are his alone. Some have taken all of Paul's words as gospel, others have used what he said were his opinions as take it or leave it, or as springboards to other things.
 
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What I'm saying is that it seems that this thread has become an argument against female Ministers on the grounds of headship - i.e man is head of women, so women can't be over men "in the church".
Yeh, I recognize that this is so, and I also know that this is on your mind. I, however, don't put any stock in that line of reasoning and, on the contrary, think that it's a distraction. For certain, it applies only to the fundamentalist wing of Christianity and plays no part in the debates over this issue in the Catholic, Anglican, Methodist, and most of the major denominations.

But I was struck by that "all you need to do" suggestion in your previous post, and so I thought I'd comment. I may have a particular "thing" about solving problems by changing the meaning of words, and we see a lot of that being done these days.

But that argument would be null and void if you had a female curate whose husband was a vicar, or whatever. An Anglican church near where we lasted lived, had exactly that; husband was the vicar and his wife a curate. This should satisfy those who use the headship argument - female ministry should be fine in these circumstances.
Uh, no. You're pointing to a church that decided TO ordain women. There's no longer any need for such a compromise. The wife can be the pastor just as well as the man.

Meanwhile, none of the churches that don't do so are going to agree that what you've suggested is workable! You may be thinking that the "headship" issue that some people bring up during these discussions played a part in the Anglican debates, but it didn't. Or you may be simply suggesting that this be some kind of a model for people who belong to churches that have no investment in Apostolic Succession or tradition, etc etc.
 
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The topic is not about women being called to "lead." It is about women as clergy (deacons, presbyters, bishops), those who preach the Gospel to congregations, administer the sacraments, and so on.
It's not the main point, no, but it is part of it. Women don't suddenly decide to become clergy out of the blue. I'm sure they are more inclined to weigh their thoughts about entering the vocation more carefully than most men do. They are certainly up against more. It's not something anyone does lightly, let alone a woman.
 
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