Then you were never gay, you were/are BI.
Gay people are not tempted sexually by those of the opposite sex. They just aren't.
And btw, you are not tempted FROM other men and women, you are tempted by your own lusts FOR other men and women. (James 1:14)
And according to Matthew 5:28, your personal lustful temptation alone is the same as adultry, so If I were you, I'd be more concerned with your personal likelihood of being hellbound because of your own admitted, current, lustful, adulterous, sinful lifestyle than anyone elses.
Are you gay?
If you are, then you know the truth.
If not, Sorry, you don't know what your talking about.
I know what temptation is. Thank you if I made a mistake in typing.
I'm not concerned about my sins anymore. They are gone. Forever forgiven, Forgotten by God. And if he's forgotten them, who am I to bring them back into the light.
But because He delivered me out of that lifestyle. He can use me to speak to them, Just as a former drug addict or alcoholic can speak to those who are addicts of such things. And use my testimony to help bring the lost to Christ.
Your right, though, you can't live in your past, no. And you should never ever, get into details of your past. You just tell them, as I do, I was gay, I lived the life, and because of me living that lifestyle, it almost destroyed myself and others in the process.
But I was gloriously delivered, my mind renewed by His Word and my desires changed, to seek out the will of God. And to give Him the praise for Saving me by faith, thru grace, and putting my Trust in Christ.