Hey guys. I've heard that marriage counseling/therapy with the church takes a minimum of 6 months, or that you have to wait that long prior to the ceremony. Is this, like, mandatory or can it be waived under certain circumstances or something?
Hey guys. I've heard that marriage counseling/therapy with the church takes a minimum of 6 months, or that you have to wait that long prior to the ceremony. Is this, like, mandatory or can it be waived under certain circumstances or something?
Hey guys. I've heard that marriage counseling/therapy with the church takes a minimum of 6 months, or that you have to wait that long prior to the ceremony. Is this, like, mandatory or can it be waived under certain circumstances or something?
Oh good. I thought there was some type of requirement! That makes me feel better.
I want it waived because of medical circumstances. My child-bearing abilities, if they can be saved, will only be available for 3-5 years. Ideally, I want to get married in the church and have my children only after getting married. However, things being what they are, I was concerned that this 6 month waiting period might really be a problem. My SI and I are not yet engaged, though I think that's pretty inevitable, and time is ticking. Once we get to the point that we're sure and we're ready to get married, I don't want to have to wait any longer than necessary.
Hey guys. I've heard that marriage counseling/therapy with the church takes a minimum of 6 months, or that you have to wait that long prior to the ceremony. Is this, like, mandatory or can it be waived under certain circumstances or something?
It depends.It's very unlikely that it will be waived. One cannot expect to go into a parish and tell the priest that you want to make babies ASAP and get married soon.
People get married for all the wrong reasons and "my biological clock" is one of them.
If your boyfriend wishes to marry you and have children, then you need to have that conversation with him and respect the procedures of the Church. Six months is VERY little time. The priest of your parish spent at least six YEARS thinking about and preparing to be a priest.
I will tell you plainly, you will not go to a Catholic parish and do things on your terms.
Hey guys. I've heard that marriage counseling/therapy with the church takes a minimum of 6 months, or that you have to wait that long prior to the ceremony. Is this, like, mandatory or can it be waived under certain circumstances or something?
Oh good. I thought there was some type of requirement! That makes me feel better.
I want it waived because of medical circumstances. My child-bearing abilities, if they can be saved, will only be available for 3-5 years. Ideally, I want to get married in the church and have my children only after getting married. However, things being what they are, I was concerned that this 6 month waiting period might really be a problem. My SI and I are not yet engaged, though I think that's pretty inevitable, and time is ticking. Once we get to the point that we're sure and we're ready to get married, I don't want to have to wait any longer than necessary.
Oh good. I thought there was some type of requirement! That makes me feel better.
I want it waived because of medical circumstances. My child-bearing abilities, if they can be saved, will only be available for 3-5 years. Ideally, I want to get married in the church and have my children only after getting married. However, things being what they are, I was concerned that this 6 month waiting period might really be a problem. My SI and I are not yet engaged, though I think that's pretty inevitable, and time is ticking. Once we get to the point that we're sure and we're ready to get married, I don't want to have to wait any longer than necessary.
Does this mean you're on your way to make a full recovery?
I pray that you are sister.
In Jesus, Mary and Joseph
-AChildOfMary
one more thing to think about--your present medical prognosis could change and improve in the future.
there are people alive today, and fatal diseases being cured, who would not have had that chance years ago.
It is the norm for it to be 6 to 9 months in my parish but I think under certain circumstances it can be shortened.
I mean, I do have to plan the wedding, so the 6 months might not be THAT big of an issue! Haha.
No. If the current course of treatment works, then it will buy me some time, that's all. I should have 3-5 years, if that's the Lord blesses me with. At the end of the time I'll have to have the hysterectomy and hopefully then I will be just fine.
Something about this just resonates. Playing by the rules does not assure us of anything. I hope the best for you.This is simply the hand I've been dealt, especially after so many years of doing what I was supposed to, and I'm making decisions based on what I have available. This isn't about my biological clock ticking. This is about cancer and cancer isn't going to wait.