I agree, I'm a person who doesn't believe in God, but I'm not at all sure whether my beliefs are correct, I'm willing to admit that I may be wrong. I'm curious about Christianity, yet it's very disheartening to see so many people who basically just say "wrong, going to hell".
It's understandable that you feel this way; even I sometimes get a condemning reaction from others who are supposed to be fellow Christians. I don't mind if someone says something rhetorical to *smack* my attention, but I don't expect them to imply that I'm going to hell, for instance, simply because I don't think Adam and Eve were necessarily real people.
How can Christians be so sure of the exact particulars of their beliefs?
That is indeed a philosophical pretzel, with deep epistemological implications, and I agree with you that Christians should be a little more flexible in their advocacy. But...it would also be odd for someone to claim faith with little to no feeling of conviction about their beliefs.
The Bible is after all not the direct word of God, in the manner that that the Quran supposedly is, but a curated anthology of works written by men, purportedly with divine inspiration or guidance.
To some extent, you're right, but there are places in the Bible that supposedly report direct dialogue from God; it comes in bits and pieces in the Bible, with lots of indirect connective tissue, so to speak.
And how many of us here read the Bible in its original Hebrew, Aramaic and Greek? Most of us read it in one or more English translations, so no matter how good the translation, some of it is inevitably lost on us.
Very true, and this is one reason Christians should work on the way in which they deliver their message. Unfortunately, social skills and emotional intelligence, like the skills of reading Hebrew and Greek, typically have to be learned, and if a leader of a church (or family) does not think these things are important to Christian life and understanding, then the expression of Christian belief in that church (or family) will tend to be different than it is in a church that does value those skills. So, we have a range of Christian "types," such as those at Westboro Baptist, who like to picket with hate signs at abortion clinics, gay parades, and soldiers funerals, to those other churches that focus on preaching the Gospel, as well as helping the homeless, staving off social ills like the sex trade, and just generally aiding others in need.
At the same time, should we expect Christians to be rug-mats whenever confronted by those who disagree with Christian faith?
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