Well, holding to a particular belief in the Bible does not equate with me in being a Seventh Day Adventist. That would be like saying I am a Catholic just because I believe in the Trinity. In my short profile status (that is in each post) I list myself as non-denominational. While I believe there are a lot of false religions or churches out there, truth on particular subjects in the Bible cannot always be determined by placing people into categories. Truth is determined by the Word of God by the Holy Spirit and by being a objective student of the Word (Even when a belief may seem to conflict with a church's popular beliefs).
But for your information: I used to believe in Eternal Concious Torment because that is what the Popular churches all taught. In fact, I used to try and even defend such a position (But in the back of my mind I knew it was a hollow defense). Conditional Immortality (i.e. that the wicked will be destroyed in the Lake of Fire) was not something I jumped into believing overnight. In fact, there was a long time I was on the fence in believing both views as being a possibility. I made a long list of Scripture verses for and against both positions. But one day, I did some more study in regards to Conditional Immortality and I came to realize it was the Biblical position that had the most verses supporting it.
But let's stop and think for a moment with one's heart, though.
Do you believe God is good?
Do you believe you can defend the goodness of God in the Bible?
Do you believe there is no mystery to explaining His goodness?
I believe this is where you will be stumped to do so when it comes to ECT (Eternal Conscious Torment).
I also believe you cannot make a real world example (parable) in explaining the goodness of God in regards to torturing people way beyond what the crimes call for, too.
I believe in Dualistic Conditionalism (Which is under the umbrella of Conditional Immortality). Dualistic Conditionalism is the belief that there is a real hell and, the wicked go there to await the Judgment whereby they will be cast into the Lake of Fire to be destroyed or erased from existence. So as for the Story of Lazarus and the Richman: I believe it is a literal and real story. But I believe the rich man was not tortured in any flames, though. I believe he was tormented by the heat of the flame that was in front of him that was within the great gulf between him and Abraham. Whether people are conscious the whole time in hell (or whether "time" operates differently in hell) is unknown to me at this current date. So I have left that part as a mystery until God chooses to reveal that to me with His Word (if it is there for me to know). For we know in part and we prophecy in part. But after the Judgment, the Bible is VERY VERY VERY clear that wicked will be destroyed in the Lake of Fire. Jesus said, fear not him who can destroy the body, but fear the one (i.e. Jesus) who can destroy both body and soul in Gehenna (i.e. Gehenna being the Lake of Fire) (Mattthew 10:28). For the KJV renders this as "hell" but the Greek word is "Gehenna."
Also, the word "forever" and it's related words does not always mean "forever" as in reference to all eternity, either. "Forever" can be in reference to one's alotted time here. The Scriptures also make it clear that "life" can only be gained by Jesus Christ. No Jesus and no eternal life or immortality. The Scriptures also make reference to many passages of how the wicked will also be destroyed, turned into ash, or stubble, too. I provided verses (or source links to verses) for all of this.
Anyways, if you are truly interested in checking out these verses, I have talked a lot about this subject here:
http://christianchat.com/bible-discussion-forum/104767-what-your-view-hell-lake-fire-loving.html
Side Note:
Oh, and please take note that I was banned wrongfully at this other website for voicing my views strongly against OSAS (Once Saved Always Saved). They said I was attacking people's salvation, but in no way did I do so. I spoke from a third person viewpoint (i.e. not talking to anyone specifically but in general). In fact, a week before I was banned, a woman (Who believed in OSAS and who had great influence at the site) try to goad me to judge her salvation personally. I refused to do so. But that did not stop them from banning me for false reasons anyways. For there was no warning or anything. I was just banned. Anyways, I will continue to pray for them (Despite their wrongful action against me).
Anyways, I hope you check out the verses at the link I provided for yourself and pray over them. In other words, do not take my word for it. Do your own study and take your time and seek the Lord's guidance.
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