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I am now non-denominational by belief, but a member of a church that happens to be Southern Baptist. I don't believe it's the name of the church that's important. It's whether or not they point to Jesus Christ as the way of salvation. With that information for background, I was once a staunch Seventh-day Adventist. I remember reading in the works of Ellen G. White that when time has finished, and we are standing before the Lord, if our children aren't with us, He's going to ask us what happened. "But where are the children I entrusted to your care? Why aren't they here also? Didn't you do the job I gave you to do?" (Paraphrased, but that's the sentiment.) It isn't stated, but it's implied, that if our children don't make it in, we won't either, because we were supposed to see to it that they make it in.
One of my children wavers between identifying as a militant atheist and a satanist, and constantly posts anti-Christian messages on Facebook. My stepson, an avowed atheist, continues to send his father e-mail after e-mail trying to disprove Christianity, despite the fact that my husband has asked him repeatedly to stop sending him that stuff. I know it isn't for lack of effort on my husband's part, and I also tried to teach my children about the Lord. But to our children's way of thinking, parents so much as taking a child to church with them is considered an act of child abuse. "Brainwashing," you know. "Forcing" an ideology on them.
Well, if Mrs. White is correct, I failed at my life's work, being a mother, because my child has rejected Christ.
Has anyone else ever heard or dealt with the notion that if the children don't accept the message of salvation, it is the failure of the parents who should have taught them?
One of my children wavers between identifying as a militant atheist and a satanist, and constantly posts anti-Christian messages on Facebook. My stepson, an avowed atheist, continues to send his father e-mail after e-mail trying to disprove Christianity, despite the fact that my husband has asked him repeatedly to stop sending him that stuff. I know it isn't for lack of effort on my husband's part, and I also tried to teach my children about the Lord. But to our children's way of thinking, parents so much as taking a child to church with them is considered an act of child abuse. "Brainwashing," you know. "Forcing" an ideology on them.
Well, if Mrs. White is correct, I failed at my life's work, being a mother, because my child has rejected Christ.
Has anyone else ever heard or dealt with the notion that if the children don't accept the message of salvation, it is the failure of the parents who should have taught them?