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is it badmouthing others to talk about them if they've hurt you? But not mention their names.
I was thinking that its not nice for me to do this but I try not to talk about friends that have hurt me to other friends who might know them. If they hurt me i deal with it but sometimes I need counsel and then I feel bad for talking about it to someone else.
I.e. I dont want to do something like ruin their reputation and its not gossiping or is it? I mean im the one that got hurt, does that mean im too sensitive. Or...i should not hang around them anymore to avoid those situations where they make me uncomfortable. Cos i cant really be friends with them if they dont treat me well and Im always fearing what they going to say next.
What does the bible say? I was thinking that Jesus did he call Judas out or did he just let him hang around even knowing he was out to betray him. It must have hurt him to know that Judas wasnt really his friend. Yet he was gracious about it. I dont feel im being gracious with the people that hurt me.
I was thinking that its not nice for me to do this but I try not to talk about friends that have hurt me to other friends who might know them. If they hurt me i deal with it but sometimes I need counsel and then I feel bad for talking about it to someone else.
I.e. I dont want to do something like ruin their reputation and its not gossiping or is it? I mean im the one that got hurt, does that mean im too sensitive. Or...i should not hang around them anymore to avoid those situations where they make me uncomfortable. Cos i cant really be friends with them if they dont treat me well and Im always fearing what they going to say next.
What does the bible say? I was thinking that Jesus did he call Judas out or did he just let him hang around even knowing he was out to betray him. It must have hurt him to know that Judas wasnt really his friend. Yet he was gracious about it. I dont feel im being gracious with the people that hurt me.