Okay, as Christians we all have our feelings of what is right and wrong in our own eyes. One person may view it as harmless, while someone else views it as sin. I personally, find myself trying to help people see what is wrong. It is a strong will that I have and I think I need to stop. Now, don't think that I do this in mean fashion. I have a heart that strongly wants to not sin, and I voice my views and opinions on things, sometimes in a get around the point kind of deal or straight up say that it's wrong.
I do not mean any harm. I don't know why I have such a stubborn headed mind set of "that's not right" don't do it. I want people not to sin, and I want to show them that what they watch, listen too, do etc. is wrong. I have got to quit. How do I get over this? I don't want to be judgmental, and make people not want to be around me. For instance, a Christian close to me posted pics of men, who were posing and showing their butts and just covering up their privates on front view, and was supposed to be wounded soldiers, but more less like soft inappropriate content. I said something about it to her, and she agreed it was a little to provocative and took it off.
How do I stop interfering with other's decisions and what they do and keep my nose in my own business!? Ugh, it's a hard thing to deal with, and I don't like it. I don't think I'm better than anyone else by no means. I struggle too and try to make sure I pull out the plank in my own eye. Another example, if a family member is watching nasty, raunchy dancing videos, that is clearly wrong, how do you stop your mouth from saying that's not right? Or I find out an old friend has a daughter that wants to strip, and I want to say, oh honey please don't use your body this way..blah blah..but I can't tell her this, I have not talked to this person since she was a little girl and she might tell me off lol. But I just want her to see who loves her so much (God) and who she is to him.
Am I a worrier over other people's sin and I need to keep myself in check? And again, please don't think I am a cold hearted person telling everyone what to do. I feel I try to do this out of love, and concerned about people's fate. Sometimes as a Christian it gets depressing viewing sin and what foolish things people do with their lives.
Anyone else go through before? Am I supposed to be a light or just shut up and let them do whatever? Confused.
I do not mean any harm. I don't know why I have such a stubborn headed mind set of "that's not right" don't do it. I want people not to sin, and I want to show them that what they watch, listen too, do etc. is wrong. I have got to quit. How do I get over this? I don't want to be judgmental, and make people not want to be around me. For instance, a Christian close to me posted pics of men, who were posing and showing their butts and just covering up their privates on front view, and was supposed to be wounded soldiers, but more less like soft inappropriate content. I said something about it to her, and she agreed it was a little to provocative and took it off.
How do I stop interfering with other's decisions and what they do and keep my nose in my own business!? Ugh, it's a hard thing to deal with, and I don't like it. I don't think I'm better than anyone else by no means. I struggle too and try to make sure I pull out the plank in my own eye. Another example, if a family member is watching nasty, raunchy dancing videos, that is clearly wrong, how do you stop your mouth from saying that's not right? Or I find out an old friend has a daughter that wants to strip, and I want to say, oh honey please don't use your body this way..blah blah..but I can't tell her this, I have not talked to this person since she was a little girl and she might tell me off lol. But I just want her to see who loves her so much (God) and who she is to him.
Am I a worrier over other people's sin and I need to keep myself in check? And again, please don't think I am a cold hearted person telling everyone what to do. I feel I try to do this out of love, and concerned about people's fate. Sometimes as a Christian it gets depressing viewing sin and what foolish things people do with their lives.
Anyone else go through before? Am I supposed to be a light or just shut up and let them do whatever? Confused.