Hello, I think the reason people have a hard time accepting the fact of homosexuality being a choice is because of neurological science. Throughout the history of humanity, people have struggled with homosexuality, so we cannot be surprised. However much someone might choose homosexuality today, understand that for most of human history, the ramifications supersede a tolerant American country, so I understand your concerns, but some homosexual advocates have looked me in the eye and told me they wouldn't choose this path. In addition to that, if we think of homosexuality 'actions' as a sin, it makes sense that we can be born with homosexual tendencies inherited via Adam's nature. This is no harm whatsoever. Some are born with a higher probability of becoming angry quicker than others, but it's still a sin to become angry.