My daughter and boyfriend got engaged last year. They had planned to get married in October. We all went out and checked out venues and places to have her perfect wedding. Now, they are talking about getting married privately in the next 2 weeks, without us and his parents, solely because they "cannot live without each other anymore". I feel like the original intent of the wedding is now being overshadowed by their physical need to be together. The venue has already been booked and several purchases have been made. I don't see the point now of walking my daughter down the aisle and giving her away to someone who she is already married to. This would seem very awkward to me knowing they are already married, living together, and doing what married people do. We've already talked about this and I told her I don't feel comfortable doing this for her, after she changed up the plans we had from the beginning. I told her we could cancel this and have a vow renewal ceremony next year celebrating their 1 year anniversary. She said she doesn't want to because his family is wanting to be a part of it in October. We (daughter, fiance', my wife and I) agreed we would have the best wedding for them if they didn't mind the wait, so we could afford this.