thinking about devorce

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I was devorced for over 7 years when i met amy. At first we met and things kind of fell into place, but shortly after we got married that was when problems arise that i didnt noticed before. i made one little mistake, which has to do with watching a inappropriate video on youtube, and now she is holding everything over my head As if i am not trustworthy. I am having second thoughts in our marriage as if i wished i never met her in the first place. Anyone who has ever been married knows what i am talking about regrets and second thoughts. I thought i know what love is but i Am not certain anymore. IF you believe in marriage and second chances please pray for me as i try to work out my differences with my wife and not give up. Thanks
 

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I was devorced for over 7 years when i met amy. At first we met and things kind of fell into place, but shortly after we got married that was when problems arise that i didnt noticed before. i made one little mistake, which has to do with watching a inappropriate video on youtube, and now she is holding everything over my head As if i am not trustworthy. I am having second thoughts in our marriage as if i wished i never met her in the first place. Anyone who has ever been married knows what i am talking about regrets and second thoughts. I thought i know what love is but i Am not certain anymore. IF you believe in marriage and second chances please pray for me as i try to work out my differences with my wife and not give up. Thanks


I'll respond but I won't mince words. If you divorce and remarry difficulties are to be expected (you no indication that your first wife was deceased). You are still married to your first wife in God's eyes.
I know that sounds unkind and lacking compassion, but I believe He wants us to speak Truth.
 
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I'll respond but I won't mince words. If you divorce and remarry difficulties are to be expected (you no indication that your first wife was deceased). You are still married to your first wife in God's eyes.
I know that sounds unkind and lacking compassion, but I believe He wants us to speak Truth.
How do you know his first wife didn't commit adultery? If she did, he was free to remarry....
 
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God bless you, brother. i am praying for you and Amy, in Jesus' holy name. thank you, Lord.

brother, if you have not seen the movie, "Fireproof," you might want to watch it. i think it might help. it involves something called the 'love dare' which you can buy at Christian bookstores. it is a marriage saver. God bless you and your wife.
 
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Praying for you. That would be so hard I'm sure. Praying she will forgive you, as we have made mistakes and it should not be held over our heads. We need to forgive and not bring it up again. God loves you! God bless and keep you.
 
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Praying for the both of you!
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