Is it ok to dislike Heaven?

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Now, I know many of you are like: "Why? It's a great place! It'll be beautiful, we can explore a vast world, we'll sing, eat and dance and have lots of fun!" Yeah, I read that. I'm a Baptist Christian, and I'm reading through Heaven by Randy Alcorn -- and Heaven STILL isn't appealing to me. I mean, sure, if you're an extrovert who loves the outside and social activities. I'm more of an indoor person unless it involves something unique and exciting.

From what I read, New Earth will be located here -- there'll be a New Jerusalem, an eternal Heaven, and amongst other things. We'll be able to communicate face-to-face with Christ, eat at large banquets (PS: If I were in Heaven, I could honestly care less about food), explore the unknown, etc.

But...

All my questions I asked in the past concerning Heaven were met with "maybes" or a flat-out "no": I may be able to explore fictional universes beyond eternal Heaven, or ideas I wrote up in my earthly body; there will not be sex in Heaven, but some sort of "transformed version" of it; and all love in Heaven is agape love--or brotherly love.

Honestly, Islamic Paradise (no, I'm not a Muslim) seems a bit more appealing... :/

Do you expect hell to have sex in it? Unlikely. Sex was created by God...it was a good thing that has been distorted into all sorts of evil variations. But that doesn't change that it was created by God for the enjoyment of couples. Nothing on earth was created in a vacuum...we are created in the image of God and everything good on earth is a shadow of what heaven is like. So whatever heaven's version of sex is must be fabulous...it isn't your watered down version of "brotherly love" which sounds like some version the dreaded "friend zone". I also suspect it doesn't involve needing a shower afterwards...and it won't involve infidelity since marriage doesn't exist...

Since Jesus often referred to the church as being the bride and He was the bridegroom...I kind of personally expect the whole experience of heaven to be not unlike an orgasmic experience. Joy like can't be described with words.
 
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Now, I know many of you are like: "Why? It's a great place! It'll be beautiful, we can explore a vast world, we'll sing, eat and dance and have lots of fun!" Yeah, I read that. I'm a Baptist Christian, and I'm reading through Heaven by Randy Alcorn -- and Heaven STILL isn't appealing to me. I mean, sure, if you're an extrovert who loves the outside and social activities. I'm more of an indoor person unless it involves something unique and exciting.

From what I read, New Earth will be located here -- there'll be a New Jerusalem, an eternal Heaven, and amongst other things. We'll be able to communicate face-to-face with Christ, eat at large banquets (PS: If I were in Heaven, I could honestly care less about food), explore the unknown, etc.

But...

All my questions I asked in the past concerning Heaven were met with "maybes" or a flat-out "no": I may be able to explore fictional universes beyond eternal Heaven, or ideas I wrote up in my earthly body; there will not be sex in Heaven, but some sort of "transformed version" of it; and all love in Heaven is agape love--or brotherly love.

Honestly, Islamic Paradise (no, I'm not a Muslim) seems a bit more appealing... :/

To call our eternal home "Heaven" is confusing. Our eternal home is the New Earth. Read Rev. 20 & 21. Heaven is God's domain. We will not be living there. And the Bible does not address sex in eternity.
 
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Hell is the absence of God and everything good. Burning alive without being consumed is a visual picture of what it will be like to be separated for eternity from God. It isn't a physical fire.
There is no reason to consider that hell isn't physical or that the flames are not physical. Jesus' story about Lazarus and the Abraham's Bosom included a man who said he was on fire. Jesus called hell a furnace and said it's a place where people scream and grind their teeth and he did not say or add or explain "... but I'm just being metaphorical, it's not real fire" . There also isn't any reason think Jesus wouldn't burn people. He had women burned to death by commandment in Leviticus.

And we all deserve to be separated from God...that is the eternity we have all earned.
That's circular. The bible god created his own rules and declared that it's what we deserve and that we have to be punished in his own torture device. It all rests upon his unfounded opinion, and he kills and tortures people too so his opinion shouldn't matter. He's not a reliable moral source.

However, it is through coming to God and asking for forgiveness and worshipping Him that we are given the gift of GRACE that allows us to spend eternity not in our earned place but rather in the presence of God. This is a gift offered to EVERY single soul that accepts it. It isn't exclusive. God wishes to give it to all but not everyone is willing to accept the gift and so they get the eternity they have earned instead.
Having a choice to please the murderer or rapist or torturer does not change that murder and rape and torture is not morally justifiable. If I was going to rape you and promised I wouldn't if you'd love me, me raping you if you refused would still be wrong. That's what happened in Isaiah 13. God had sinners raped and killed.


This is ultimate justice. No one is innocent. Those that ask for grace get it....those who don't, don't have it forced on them.
If I came to your home today and told you that I was going to put you in your stove and turn it on unless you confess your sins to me and promise to love me. Would you? Would you do it just to get away and consider my dilemma just? Would truth and morality not matter?

There is no reason to consider the god's claims of sin to be true, he simply insists that we are sinners, even when there is no human who has ever brought the amount of pain and destruction that he does.

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It's also silly to say I am guilty because he says so. I am not allowed to lie, or steal or have sex before marriage or be gay or look at women in desire.... but he's allowed to set me on fire and burn me and listen to me scream forever. That's backwards.
 
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Do you expect hell to have sex in it? Unlikely. Sex was created by God...it was a good thing that has been distorted into all sorts of evil variations. But that doesn't change that it was created by God for the enjoyment of couples. Nothing on earth was created in a vacuum...we are created in the image of God and everything good on earth is a shadow of what heaven is like. So whatever heaven's version of sex is must be fabulous...it isn't your watered down version of "brotherly love" which sounds like some version the dreaded "friend zone". I also suspect it doesn't involve needing a shower afterwards...and it won't involve infidelity since marriage doesn't exist...

Since Jesus often referred to the church as being the bride and He was the bridegroom...I kind of personally expect the whole experience of heaven to be not unlike an orgasmic experience. Joy like can't be described with words.

This is what I believe, blackribbon. Whatever the Bible says concerning Heaven, I 100% agree with. Hence why I don't believe in any sex within New Earth and New Heaven. What about intermediate Heaven (the one we go after we die)? Dunno. I guess we'll find out for ourselves.

Whatever the case is, sex isn't my primary goal in intermediate or eternal Heaven, I have so many questions for Jesus and I wish to know him. Even if there was the sex as we know it in Heaven, intermediate or eternal, it wouldn't be high on my "to-do" list.
 
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No, He gave us clues as to the general properties it has, He never intended to reveal everything. There are such things as divine mysteries we're not supposed to know (yet).

He actually made statements like "this creature looks like this, this is what it does all day" "This gate looks like this, it's made of this" "The people do this and say this"

He intended to communicate the nature of heaven to you, that you do not understand meant he did not succeed in causing you to understand.
 
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Whelp, this made my day in regards to sex in Heaven...

Billy Graham, when asked what heaven would be like, replied,

It's going to be like paradise. It'll be the -- everything that you ever wanted for happiness will be there. People say that the bible teaches there's no sex in Heaven. If sex is necessary for our happiness and fulfillment, it'll be there. And then, if certain other things that we think are pleasurable will -- it'll be there.

Jonathan Edwards said:

""God will not begrudge anything as too good for them [Christians in Heaven]; there will be no restraint to his love, no restraint to their enjoyment of himself; nothing will be too full, too inward and intimate for them to be admitted to, but Christ will say to his saints, as in Canticles (a.k.a. Song of Songs or Song of Solomon) 5:1 ‘Eat, O friends, drink, yea, drink abundance, O beloved.’ If we desire to taste all the foods that God has made, will he deny this pleasure to us, who gave His Son to die for us? (Psalms 84:11) God will withhold no good. If we still desire a thing in our new bodies it will be good and it will be granted."

The following is totally ripped by a random poster on another website, but it appears legitimate:

So he and Billy Graham, two of our most prominent preachers and theologians were on the same page.

Marriage was instituted after the fall as a result of the fall. Before the fall Adam and Eve were not "married", they were "joined" because the institution of marriage was not around. Nor did God feel a need for marriage. God only felt the need to institute the law of marriage so that His people, the seed of Abraham would keep from committing adultery and fornication in their fallen state. That is the ONLY reason marriage is around---and why it won't be necessary in the new earth where we will reside. In our glorified bodies and in a sin-free condition there won't a need for marriage anymore. That's why Jesus said, "In the resurrection they neither marry nor are given in marriage." People very incorrectly interpret Jesus'words to mean there will be no gender, no romance, no joining of two individuals and sadly, no sex in the afterlife. As one can see you can have all four without marriage.
 
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Since Jesus often referred to the church as being the bride and He was the bridegroom...I kind of personally expect the whole experience of heaven to be not unlike an orgasmic experience. Joy like can't be described with words.

The Ecstacy of St. Theresa. Yeah, the beatific vision is supposed to be orgasmic. That is to say that heaven, being in the presence of God with full communication, is suppose to be orgasmic.

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On earth certain drugs can cause orgasmic feelings even though you're not having sex. So, if that is possible on earth, theoretically it should be possible in heaven.

But you can no more know what heaven is like than you can know what meth or cocaine is like unless you experience each one personally.

I think some saint once said that we on earth can no more comprehend heaven and all its experiences than an unborn child can comprehend life on earth outside the womb. Seems a logical proposition assuming heaven exists.
 
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