I'm agnostic about the whole "Father" issue on facebook names, but I definitely think that monastics should be able to go by what they're known as. Abbot Tryphon is not known as anything other than that, like, anywhere.
I agree.
Well, maybe just 'Tryphon'.
Nothing stopping someone from listing 'clergyperson at
N church' or 'religious at
N house' in their employment section of FB. (I know it isn't employment.)
But then, I have been grossly scarred by clericalISM, Titles being problematic in that.
What about secular titles? I know it isn't a thing in the USofA, but here in UK there are too many knights and lords, would disturb the egality of the site to have one's friends publically setting themselves by the accident of their birth.
Anyway, I know many people on fb (mostly defriended) who call themselves 'Fr'. They just stick it to their first name, for example: "FrRichard".
Father is not a title. By which I mean, it is not something one is expected to call a clergy person, it is an honour they are given in gratitude from their flock (or so I heard on AFR). Hearing that greatly helped to salve some wounds.