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There seems to be a growing number of former Christians on CF, and indeed, around the internet. And I see a recurring pattern going on here. People looking for answers to questions, they get simplistic answers from well-meaning people that are unsatisfying, the non-believers or doubters question them, and they get attacked by being told they are not believing or they are defying God's will, perhaps through harboring of various sins usually enumerated against them. So these people end up even more aggrevied against Christians and the Church.
I really think CF as a community needs to do something in response, otherwise it is just a case of presenting a stumbling block for the Gospel.
I personally think the main issue is that most Christians have not been trained to think systematically or critically about their faith, and are not equipped to present good answers. Indeed, perhaps a strong minority come from religious environments where asking questions is strongly discouraged, and intellectual and emotional objections are delt with in heavy-handed fashion, using psychological and sociological manipulation. "Bad religion". Something has to change, or we are going to have more and more people just leaving the Christian faith behind as irrelevant, or even being hostile to it altogether.
The only faith group I see doing a good job in this area are Roman Catholics, and to a much lesser extent, Lutherans. Catholic responses to atheists and agnostics on this forum seem to be much more appropriate responses- not necessarily the most thought out, but they know when to avoid discussions they will lose. And its important not to waste your time on these sorts of discussions as they just cause confusion and scandal for people that are doubting.
I also think we as Christians need to work on learning to be on the defensive and keep a Christ-like demeanor even when dealing with angry, bitter people. It's very tough. For centuries Christians haven't had to be defensive about their beliefs except for the most fundamentalist. Now everybody is under attack. So its a challenge.
I really think CF as a community needs to do something in response, otherwise it is just a case of presenting a stumbling block for the Gospel.
I personally think the main issue is that most Christians have not been trained to think systematically or critically about their faith, and are not equipped to present good answers. Indeed, perhaps a strong minority come from religious environments where asking questions is strongly discouraged, and intellectual and emotional objections are delt with in heavy-handed fashion, using psychological and sociological manipulation. "Bad religion". Something has to change, or we are going to have more and more people just leaving the Christian faith behind as irrelevant, or even being hostile to it altogether.
The only faith group I see doing a good job in this area are Roman Catholics, and to a much lesser extent, Lutherans. Catholic responses to atheists and agnostics on this forum seem to be much more appropriate responses- not necessarily the most thought out, but they know when to avoid discussions they will lose. And its important not to waste your time on these sorts of discussions as they just cause confusion and scandal for people that are doubting.
I also think we as Christians need to work on learning to be on the defensive and keep a Christ-like demeanor even when dealing with angry, bitter people. It's very tough. For centuries Christians haven't had to be defensive about their beliefs except for the most fundamentalist. Now everybody is under attack. So its a challenge.
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