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have any of you ever been in a situation when you are struggling, you are down and out and at rock bottom.
you ran into someone you knew years ago but haven't seen for a while.
you were struggling when you last law them, and it is really embarrassing to see them again.
it is kind of hard to describe, but it is like you see them doing well, moving on with their lives, while you are still a loser, it kind of make you question whether things will improve
it is especially hard when they saw you, they have this mocking expression on their face, like " oh... you are still THE SAME?"
sometimes it feel like you are already half way down the cliff, and when they show you such contempt, it literally push you further down, emotionally speaking at least.
I know I should take it one day at a time, and if I keep on doing what I should be doing each day, I will get out.
and so far it seems like God does want to help me
but I still find it hard in situations such as those, and know what to do to pick myself up.
any advice?
thanks
As long as you see yourself as a loser this will happen.it is kind of hard to describe, but it is like you see them doing well, moving on with their lives, while you are still a loser, it kind of make you question whether things will improve
have any of you ever been in a situation when you are struggling, you are down and out and at rock bottom.
you ran into someone you knew years ago but haven't seen for a while.
you were struggling when you last law them, and it is really embarrassing to see them again.
it is kind of hard to describe, but it is like you see them doing well, moving on with their lives, while you are still a loser, it kind of make you question whether things will improve
it is especially hard when they saw you, they have this mocking expression on their face, like " oh... you are still THE SAME?"
*Being down on yourself can alter how one sees things, especially in situations such as you are describing...
I use to think like that but in time I came to realize that all the old friends or classmates weren't mocking...in my low self esteem my
"vision" was messed up by my stinking thinking... when I made the decision to
put more time into reading God's Word and renewing my mind OFTEN, my self
esteem problems decreased and my "vision" became clearer.
Were there some associates or classmates who actually mocked me?
a few but the majority had been befuddled by my continued situation of
setbacks in life...they didn't know what to say or if they did say something it came out wrong...I had some to tell me that they were sorry about saying the wrong thing and how they hated to see me going through such bad times
after so many years.
They couldn't do anything to change my personal setbacks but I knew the ONE
who could--- God, so I kept close to Him during those hard times and He got
me and my mom through each one...we didn't starve nor were we ever homeless.
sometimes it feel like you are already half way down the cliff, and when they show you such contempt, it literally push you further down, emotionally speaking at least.
I know I should take it one day at a time, and if I keep on doing what I should be doing each day, I will get out.
and so far it seems like God does want to help me
but I still find it hard in situations such as those, and know what to do to pick myself up.
any advice?
thanks
have any of you ever been in a situation when you are struggling, you are down and out and at rock bottom.
you ran into someone you knew years ago but haven't seen for a while.
you were struggling when you last law them, and it is really embarrassing to see them again.
it is kind of hard to describe, but it is like you see them doing well, moving on with their lives, while you are still a loser, it kind of make you question whether things will improve
it is especially hard when they saw you, they have this mocking expression on their face, like " oh... you are still THE SAME?"
sometimes it feel like you are already half way down the cliff, and when they show you such contempt, it literally push you further down, emotionally speaking at least.
I know I should take it one day at a time, and if I keep on doing what I should be doing each day, I will get out.
and so far it seems like God does want to help me
but I still find it hard in situations such as those, and know what to do to pick myself up.
any advice?
thanks
Matthew 7:1-5 (NIV) said:1. Do not judge, or you too will be judged.
2. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.
3. Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brothers eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?
4. How can you say to your brother, Let me take the speck out of your eye, when all the time there is a plank in your own eye?
5. You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brothers eye.
Matthew 7:7-12 (NIV) said:7. Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.
8. For everyone who asks receives; the one who seeks finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened.
9. Which of you, if your son asks for bread, will give him a stone?
10. Or if he asks for a fish, will give him a snake?
11. If you, then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask him!
12. So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets.