So I've been attending this church for over 8 months now. and for the past 5-6 months I have felt drawn to this lovely girl of a family whom I've become good friends with over the time I have been attending this church. But there are a few things standing in my way as of now. For one thing at the moment she is not of age (she'll be 18 in April) and there is a bit of an age gap between us around 9 years (I'm not concerned about the age difference as her older sister just married an older guy and they have a similar age gap). But what I am most needing advice in right now is how to go about getting to know this girl and starting a FRIENDship with this girl. I mean I don't have issues talking and having friendships with other women in my church (maybe it's because I'm not being drawn to them as I am to this girl?) Also, I have asperger's and social stuff is not as easy for me as it is to most people.
I've talked with her briefly here and there at Church and other church related activities. But, I can't seem to be able to start a conversation with her (maybe because she's always surrounded with her girlfriends or other people in the church body having conversations with her.)
Prayers would be good as well. Thank you.
I've talked with her briefly here and there at Church and other church related activities. But, I can't seem to be able to start a conversation with her (maybe because she's always surrounded with her girlfriends or other people in the church body having conversations with her.)
Prayers would be good as well. Thank you.