In case there was a misunderstanding, I was gently arguing *against* dismissing that passage solely on the basis of that one little pronoun. However, I do believe there are several other important issues of translation and context.
I am. I am also familiar with NT scholars who opine that currently, only the CEB and CEV translate them accurately.
CEB:
1Tim 3:1 This saying is reliable: if anyone has a goal to be a supervisor in the church, they want a good thing.
1Tim 3:2 So the churchs supervisor must be without fault. They should be faithful to their spouse, sober, modest, and honest. They should show hospitality and be skilled at teaching.
1Tim 3:3 They shouldnt be addicted to alcohol or a bully. Instead they should be gentle, peaceable, and not greedy.
1Tim 3:4 They should manage their own household wellthey should see that their children are obedient with complete respect,
1Tim 3:5 because if they dont know how to manage their own household, how can they take care of Gods church?
1Tim 3:6 They shouldnt be new believers so that they wont become proud and fall under the devils spell.
1Tim 3:7 They should also have a good reputation with those outside the church so that they wont be embarrassed and fall into the devils trap.
1Tim 3:8 In the same way, servants in the church should be dignified, not two-faced, heavy drinkers, or greedy for money.
1Tim 3:9 They should hold on to the faith that has been revealed with a clear conscience.
1Tim 3:10 They should also be tested and then serve if they are without fault.
1Tim 3:11 In the same way, women who are servants in the church should be dignified and not gossip. They should be sober and faithful in everything they do.
1Tim 3:12 Servants must be faithful to their spouse and manage their children and their own households well.
1Tim 3:13 Those who have served well gain a good standing and considerable confidence in the faith that is in Christ Jesus.
CEV:
1Tim 3:1 It is true that anyone who desires to be a church official wants to be something worthwhile.
1Tim 3:2 That's why officials must have a good reputation and be faithful in marriage. They must be self-controlled, sensible, well-behaved, friendly to strangers, and able to teach.
1Tim 3:3 They must not be heavy drinkers or troublemakers. Instead, they must be kind and gentle and not love money.
1Tim 3:4 Church officials must be in control of their own families, and they must see that their children are obedient and always respectful.
1Tim 3:5 If they don't know how to control their own families, how can they look after God's people?
1Tim 3:6 They must not be new followers of the Lord. If they are, they might become proud and be doomed along with the devil.
1Tim 3:7 Finally, they must be well-respected by people who are not followers. Then they won't be trapped and disgraced by the devil.
1Tim 3:8 Church officers should be serious. They must not be liars, heavy drinkers, or greedy for money.
1Tim 3:9 And they must have a clear conscience and hold firmly to what God has shown us about our faith.
1Tim 3:10 They must first prove themselves. Then if no one has anything against them, they can serve as officers.
1Tim 3:11 Women must also be serious. They must not gossip or be heavy drinkers, and they must be faithful in everything they do.
1Tim 3:12 Church officers must be faithful in marriage. They must be in full control of their children and everyone else in their home.
1Tim 3:13 Those who serve well as officers will earn a good reputation and will be highly respected for their faith in Christ Jesus.