My gf and I are planing to get married very soon. But I'm skeptical because she's always identified as more on the male side of things. It worked out well because I tend to fit more on the female side of things despite her being a biofemale and me being biological male. She's said in the past she felt more like a gay man than a straight woman not a stereotype either but in the way that she's a dude that happens to like men on the inside. She's 100% female on the outside. I never minded because she had chosen to live as a female mostly. I am bisexual myself so like pronouns and style of dress didn't matter to me. But I'm not really attracted to trans men really. I am attracted to Natural born men but not normally transmen. I've never found one I was remotely attracted to after they used T. Well after she got pregnant, she has more identity complaints and has looked into further transitioning after the baby is born. For me it's just like idk if I can commit to someone I may not know or be attracted to later on. Like it's a drastic change to have to deal with. I don't know if I can really cope with it. What would you do if your partner decided to transition live full time as the opposite sex?
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