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Mark Twain: Noise proves nothingoften a hen who has merely laid an egg cackles as if she had laid an asteroid"
I was thinking about this quote today and I found two lessons to be had from it in regard to OCD. The first thing that came to my mind was how one persons obsessional theme will be hugely disturbing to them but another person with OCD might view it as being absurd and wonder how the anyone could possibly be upset by it. The lesson being, that although the obsession seems to be merely an egg to you, because its not your particular obsession, it still FEELS like an asteroid to the person who is suffering with it. Its important to understand that its really not the content of the obsession that makes it so painful as much as it is the anxiety response that the person experiences in relation to it. This intensely excruciating anxiety is the thing which makes it seem huge to them and they really have no control over that, so its important not to invalidate how they are feeling.
The second lesson is about the noise of OCD. The noise of OCD is twofold. A. The noise of the exaggerated anxiety response which can be compared to what it might feel like if your head were about to be chopped off by a guillotine and B. the constant droning noise of the obsession which plays over and over in your brain every waking minute. Its all this noise that causes the sufferer to feel like the obsession surely must have a huge measure of validity. (Its an asteroid!) Therefore, with OCD although the noise doesnt really equal truth it surely feels as though the obsession might be valid.
Managing OCD means learning to tolerate the noise without treating the obsession as if its worthy of a response. It takes more grit than you can imagine to do this, because the noise of OCD is very compelling and pushes the sufferer into attending to the obsession.
So to sum up: A. All OCD obsessions create intense anxiety no matter what theme. And, B. The anxiety that the sufferer feels isnt tantamount to truth even though if feels very threatening.
I was thinking about this quote today and I found two lessons to be had from it in regard to OCD. The first thing that came to my mind was how one persons obsessional theme will be hugely disturbing to them but another person with OCD might view it as being absurd and wonder how the anyone could possibly be upset by it. The lesson being, that although the obsession seems to be merely an egg to you, because its not your particular obsession, it still FEELS like an asteroid to the person who is suffering with it. Its important to understand that its really not the content of the obsession that makes it so painful as much as it is the anxiety response that the person experiences in relation to it. This intensely excruciating anxiety is the thing which makes it seem huge to them and they really have no control over that, so its important not to invalidate how they are feeling.
The second lesson is about the noise of OCD. The noise of OCD is twofold. A. The noise of the exaggerated anxiety response which can be compared to what it might feel like if your head were about to be chopped off by a guillotine and B. the constant droning noise of the obsession which plays over and over in your brain every waking minute. Its all this noise that causes the sufferer to feel like the obsession surely must have a huge measure of validity. (Its an asteroid!) Therefore, with OCD although the noise doesnt really equal truth it surely feels as though the obsession might be valid.
Managing OCD means learning to tolerate the noise without treating the obsession as if its worthy of a response. It takes more grit than you can imagine to do this, because the noise of OCD is very compelling and pushes the sufferer into attending to the obsession.
So to sum up: A. All OCD obsessions create intense anxiety no matter what theme. And, B. The anxiety that the sufferer feels isnt tantamount to truth even though if feels very threatening.