Today at 10:47 AM Evening Mist said this in Post #55
I am not being clear. I am sorry. I am trying to say that the cause of a panic attack is NOT always fear, though anxiety/fear/panic may play into it.
It is unfair to decide for other people that if they would just be a good enough Christian, their attacks will go away. It is unfair and untrue.
A person without fear might have an attack as a result of stress.
The cause of a panic attack is chemical, and nobody really understands what causes the chemical imbalance. It is impossible to tell whether life first affects chemistry or chemistry first affects life. And it is equally difficult to try to factor in "causes" of spirit and distinguish them from reactions of spirit.
Often a panic attacks feels like a heart attack, pure and simple. The person reacts to the attack with panic -- and that is why it is named such.
How the mix of inter-related causes needs to be addressed depends on the person and the situation. I have worked with brain damaged clients for whom medication made the difference between life and eath, and for others it meant a subtle but important difference in their level of independence.
For others, like me, an attack like that means "Slow down, breath, stop trying to take on so much and be strong in the Lord."
Today at 02:06 PM Evening Mist said this in Post #64
Amen to that SnuP, and I do. And I think most Chrsitians do.
But fear is not always evil, and anger is not always evil, and sickness is not always evil. Sometimes fear is a promting from God to run. Sometimes anger is a promting from God to affect change. Sometimes sickeness is evidence of a battle going on in your body, and we can be encouraged by the fact that that battle is being faught on our behalf while we wait and "cope" until the final outcome.
And when I am grocery shopping with 2 screaming kids and the lady behind me keeps running her cart into my heels, and I can't get my 2 year old up off the floor so that we can get to the milk aisle, and I am aware of the fact that when I got home I'll have to get the kids down for naps and get the groceries in and put away by myself -- and then my hands start shaking, and I get dizzy, and feel nauseous, and my vision becomes distored and I have trouble speaking ...... This is all because I am not strong enough in faith??? Maybe so. Maybe if I walked with the spirit more closely I could figure out how to feed my kids without going to the grocery store. I dunno.
But SnuP this whole idea of faith healing is a pretty serious thing to consider. I knew a guy who had diabetes and he believed he was healed and went off his insulin. 2 days later he was found unconscious behind the wheel of his car after he went into shock and drove into a wall. Now you might say that his faith was obviously not strong enough or else that would never have happened. But what will you say when it happens again and he runs down an innocent child playing on the sidewalk? What will you say to that child's parents?
And what do you say to the battered wife, who prays every day for guidance and deliverance by the power of the holy spirit, who suffers from depression, anxiety, fear and pain. Who's husband tells her that everything would be fine if she were just a better Christian, and then slugs her again? Is it her own fault for not walking closely enough with the spirit?
What about my brain damaged clients? Do you have any idea how many times those men went to church, came home on fire for God and convinced that if they just had enough faith they would be healed and their life would go back to normal? So they would refuse their meds and then become violent and dangerous, threaten me, pull a knife of their roomate, and then start having seizures and have to be taken to the ER?
Faith does not mean you do dangerous things.
Certaintly you don't believe that going to the grocery store has to result in a panic attack?
There are definitely places eveningmist where God doesn't work... like your violent clients...
Today at 09:23 PM Evening Mist said this in Post #69 (http://www.christianforums.com/showthread.php?postid=653477#post653477)
Live4Jesus -- surely you didn't mean that exactly the way it sounds? I'm guessing (based on your generally loving and enthusiastic attitude) that you didn't.
I think it is very possible God was working through me in their situation. Me, the lowly mental health worker.
And also through their families. And, gasp, through their medications too.
Is it possible that God was working through their very afflictions in some fashion? I don't know. I would never say that God afflicted them. But I would say that God can use our afflictions for some good purpose. He is the master of salvaging things.
Does "God working" always have to be evident in mystical events before we can know it is Him?
When you need Him, He will be there, don't be the little boy crying wolf all the time or He may not respond after while...
Surely He may be working through you, but what I meant was that even though they 'claimed' to be christians, doesn't really mean that much. (in so far as why their violence)
Big faith because the world around, the popel you know, are easily used by the devil to destroy the work God does in you... don't let them defer you from your journey...
My best advice ... ask Him to search your heart,, and then be still and know that He IS God.
Today at 03:10 AM Evening Mist said this in Post #72 (http://www.christianforums.com/showthread.php?postid=653942#post653942)
This does not make a lot of sense to me. It just doesn't ring true to what I know about God's patience. Maybe I'm not understanding.
Today at 03:10 AM Evening Mist said this in Post #72
These were men who had sustained major damage to their brains. More or less demolished major portions of their frontal lobes, so that they lost their ability to control their own inclinations. They were "disinhibited," and that would be putting it mildly.
It is really not fair to hold them responsible for violent behaviors comitted in a state of insanity, confusion and pain.
They were victims of their injuries, and it was very, very, very sad.
Today at 03:10 AM Evening Mist said this in Post #72
God created us to be social beings and to rely on one-another as one body. It is acceptable and healthy to rely on each other for comfort and support.
But people also do abuse each other, and it does strike me as sensible to avoid those people who tear down, harm, and humilated other people.
Today at 03:10 AM Evening Mist said this in Post #72
Wonderful advice! I will do that.
Today at 01:05 AM humblejoe said this in Post #74
Maybe I'm wrong, but it sounds to me like some of you are saying that I'm not doing anything lasting to help me with my minor panic attacks. I've already told what I do, and it helps me almost every time. I get better at it every time too. I don't think I am letting myself stay defeated, or that I am letting some kind of darkness stay locked up in my soul. I hope y'all are not saying that, because that would be very insulting.
14th February 2003 at 01:06 PM Evening Mist said this in Post #64
Amen to that SnuP, and I do. And I think most Chrsitians do.
But fear is not always evil, and anger is not always evil, and sickness is not always evil. Sometimes fear is a promting from God to run. Sometimes anger is a promting from God to affect change. Sometimes sickeness is evidence of a battle going on in your body, and we can be encouraged by the fact that that battle is being faught on our behalf while we wait and "cope" until the final outcome.
to this I must agree hole heartedly
And when I am grocery shopping with 2 screaming kids and the lady behind me keeps running her cart into my heels, and I can't get my 2 year old up off the floor so that we can get to the milk aisle, and I am aware of the fact that when I got home I'll have to get the kids down for naps and get the groceries in and put away by myself -- and then my hands start shaking, and I get dizzy, and feel nauseous, and my vision becomes distored and I have trouble speaking ...... This is all because I am not strong enough in faith??? Maybe so. Maybe if I walked with the spirit more closely I could figure out how to feed my kids without going to the grocery store. I dunno.
But SnuP this whole idea of faith healing is a pretty serious thing to consider. I knew a guy who had diabetes and he believed he was healed and went off his insulin. 2 days later he was found unconscious behind the wheel of his car after he went into shock and drove into a wall. Now you might say that his faith was obviously not strong enough or else that would never have happened. But what will you say when it happens again and he runs down an innocent child playing on the sidewalk? What will you say to that child's parents?
And what do you say to the battered wife, who prays every day for guidance and deliverance by the power of the holy spirit, who suffers from depression, anxiety, fear and pain. Who's husband tells her that everything would be fine if she were just a better Christian, and then slugs her again? Is it her own fault for not walking closely enough with the spirit?
What about my brain damaged clients? Do you have any idea how many times those men went to church, came home on fire for God and convinced that if they just had enough faith they would be healed and their life would go back to normal? So they would refuse their meds and then become violent and dangerous, threaten me, pull a knife of their roomate, and then start having seizures and have to be taken to the ER?
Today at 12:51 AM SnuP said this in Post #79 (http://www.christianforums.com/showthread.php?postid=656137#post656137)
To answers Joe's question. No matter how good the cooping method, isn't complete deliverance better than just cooping.