I'm pretty certain I've been used in a business situation by another believer; I see all the red flags and feel the effects of being taken advantage. This person certainly is unable admit to having done wrong and I don't expect or require that as I am not looking for resolution; I am just that certain I've been used and taken advantage of and I'm fine with slipping away. I'm not angry other than in a "mad" sort of way since I allowed it because I'm naive. I've been avoiding this person happily for a week now and would love to continue avoiding her but she is trying to contact me via facebook since I have been ignoring her calls.
All I want to say at this point is "get lost, idiot", but that won't make me feel good and I'm not trying to hurt her feelings. I'm hoping that she's slick enough to take subtle hints, but then I think she has and part of the game is to ignore hints.
There are a few loose ends that need to be worked out, but basically I want nothing to do with her anymore. She has disrespected me, taken advantage, been somewhat deceptive and attempted, but failed, to manipulate me using scripture...that part was midly amusing, but annoying.
Please don't mention her spiritual condition nor question her place with God. I don't think in those terms; she's a believer and she's obviously weak in a few areas as are we all. So I don't see it in terms of she is wrong and I am right. I see it in terms of this business / friendship connection is not working out and it needs to end, and peace to both of us.
However, I can be a bit harsh when I am annoyed and hurt and I'm afraid I might hurt her feelings (though, she may have it coming) but mostly I'm trying to avoid saying anything that might rope me into any discussion since resolution seems impossible since she doesn't seem to be in touch with her true motives in the first place. If she were to confess to me that her motives have not been pure then I might listen, but I'd still feel the same and just want to wish her a nice life. Trust has been broken several times and I'm not interested in working things out.
Any advice?
All I want to say at this point is "get lost, idiot", but that won't make me feel good and I'm not trying to hurt her feelings. I'm hoping that she's slick enough to take subtle hints, but then I think she has and part of the game is to ignore hints.
There are a few loose ends that need to be worked out, but basically I want nothing to do with her anymore. She has disrespected me, taken advantage, been somewhat deceptive and attempted, but failed, to manipulate me using scripture...that part was midly amusing, but annoying.
Please don't mention her spiritual condition nor question her place with God. I don't think in those terms; she's a believer and she's obviously weak in a few areas as are we all. So I don't see it in terms of she is wrong and I am right. I see it in terms of this business / friendship connection is not working out and it needs to end, and peace to both of us.
However, I can be a bit harsh when I am annoyed and hurt and I'm afraid I might hurt her feelings (though, she may have it coming) but mostly I'm trying to avoid saying anything that might rope me into any discussion since resolution seems impossible since she doesn't seem to be in touch with her true motives in the first place. If she were to confess to me that her motives have not been pure then I might listen, but I'd still feel the same and just want to wish her a nice life. Trust has been broken several times and I'm not interested in working things out.
Any advice?