Perhaps your friend shouldn't have kids then.
Or perhaps your friend might change his/her mind after the passing of time or circumstances.
This is a common answer I get from people. Its almost as if its "expected" that he will change his mind given enough time because having kids is "just what people do".
Hmm... Sounds like your friend might have some things in common with a few governments or dictators who declare themselves authorities on what is or isn't (for others) good, logic, or even "reason."
Is he/she from
China?
Huh? Don't people do that all the time...thinking you're right and someone else is wrong forms the basis for every debate and argument.
And no he's not from China.
And ethical implications?
Hmm... I might tend to agree (to a degree) with your friend on that very small facet in a certain light; although, most of the lack of actually considering anything, much more so regarding morality or ethics, isn't necessarily from people wanting kids so much as people wanting to go through the physical acts... that end up having kids.
There certainly are problems when a freedom exists and people are allowed to do things without getting it cleared with an authority on good, bad, logic and reason, etc.
Yes, it would be nice if you were infertile/sterile up to the point you pass a parenting test
Hmm... perhaps if you think you need to justify to your friend a why that passes his litmus test, you shouldn't have kids.
I like to be able to justify my actions prior to performing them. Especially for a decision as large as having kids. If I can't justify it to myself and/or to others, then it means I'm acting irrationally.
I am assuming, of course, that your "friend" isn't the other half of your so-called "combining DNA" analogy.
No, my wife wants kids. We are both still in post-grad schooling so having kids now would not be the wisest decision.
The "friend" is actually my cousin...if you need specifics
Hmm... are you asking regarding yourself or asking in regards to speak for others or everyone?
I'm asking an ethical question regarding your opinion on the matter.
Do you think whoever bore you did something wrong and you feel compelled to chastise them?
This might be the deeper psychological root as to why my friend doesn't want to have kids. He had a rough homelife growing up.
However, even if that is the case, it still doesn't lend any
positive support for reasons why you should have kids.
Sorry, you should understand that I find the "need" (for lack of a better term) to ask such a question more interesting than whatever someone might post as a yes, no, or maybe "answer" to the question posed.
I like asking questions. No question is a bad question
And as I said before, I like to have reasons and justifications for my actions, otherwise I am acting irrationally. I am also wondering why people should or should not have kids in the general sense. This question goes beyond my own opinions on kids and broadens to ask others what their opinion is.
That aside and by all means: if you have reason for why you should not have kids, then don't have kids right now.
Hope you find what you need.
This answer does not address the ethical implications of having kids.
So far on this thread I am getting one kind of response:
"Do what feels good. If you feel like having kids have them, if you feel like not having kids, don't have them."
This seems lazy and lends credence to my friends point that very few people seem to give it much thought...