Harsh... hey little sister. Bet you wish you hadn't opened this topic now ha?
Truth of the matter is there's many here that would like to tell you to fly into the arms of you love. You could write a poem about it afterwards and it will all be fantastic. It might even happen in a bed of roses and soft silky blankets.
Wouldn't that be great?
Truth is, there's this funny thing that happens in the dynamic of a relationship in the post sex era. It happens almost as soon as the man "finishes."
At this age, it's like you're a mountain, and he has climbed you. His long track is done. An immediately from that point the relationship is on the path downhill.
For you he'll be your first sexual love, the man who has satisfied those deep urges you had, you'll be head over heels. Following him around like a puppy.
He'll know has you completely and utterly and the thrill of the chase will be lost. Gradually you'll begin to annoy him more and more. And in the end he'll probably do something stupid like meet up with one of your friends.
Noo noo I hear you scream, that's not my Brad, he loves me, he would never do that to me...
Yeh right!
Now it's rather unfortunate the way this topic has transpired. This is a very delicate issue and should have been handled after a particular fashion. Now the best we can do is a rather messy clean up operation.
Football sigh... I can't attack the truth of what you said.
But...
This the mortal sin stuff. Mortal and venial sins are a R Catholic dogma btw little sister.
The way you've phrased this is very dangerous. Unless she read that very carefully she might think if she decided to have sex there's no way back from this that she's somehow condemned forever.
Yes I know that's not what you said but it requires a very careful reading to understand that. Brother try to be a careful when you throw phrases like eternal hell around.
We can't tell you what to do little sister. Many of us didn't have the enormously difficult task of being a true Christian and a teenager. I applaud you little sister for having made it this far. It shows you are indeed a true Christian struggling to do what is right.
My advise to you, is try to give this gift to your husband on your wedding night (who most likely will not be "Brad"). But whatever you choose to do, you keep believing on Christ and your salvation in him.
Good luck and God bless...
Truth of the matter is there's many here that would like to tell you to fly into the arms of you love. You could write a poem about it afterwards and it will all be fantastic. It might even happen in a bed of roses and soft silky blankets.
Wouldn't that be great?
Truth is, there's this funny thing that happens in the dynamic of a relationship in the post sex era. It happens almost as soon as the man "finishes."
At this age, it's like you're a mountain, and he has climbed you. His long track is done. An immediately from that point the relationship is on the path downhill.
For you he'll be your first sexual love, the man who has satisfied those deep urges you had, you'll be head over heels. Following him around like a puppy.
He'll know has you completely and utterly and the thrill of the chase will be lost. Gradually you'll begin to annoy him more and more. And in the end he'll probably do something stupid like meet up with one of your friends.
Noo noo I hear you scream, that's not my Brad, he loves me, he would never do that to me...
Yeh right!
Now it's rather unfortunate the way this topic has transpired. This is a very delicate issue and should have been handled after a particular fashion. Now the best we can do is a rather messy clean up operation.
Football sigh... I can't attack the truth of what you said.
But...
This the mortal sin stuff. Mortal and venial sins are a R Catholic dogma btw little sister.
The way you've phrased this is very dangerous. Unless she read that very carefully she might think if she decided to have sex there's no way back from this that she's somehow condemned forever.
Yes I know that's not what you said but it requires a very careful reading to understand that. Brother try to be a careful when you throw phrases like eternal hell around.
We can't tell you what to do little sister. Many of us didn't have the enormously difficult task of being a true Christian and a teenager. I applaud you little sister for having made it this far. It shows you are indeed a true Christian struggling to do what is right.
My advise to you, is try to give this gift to your husband on your wedding night (who most likely will not be "Brad"). But whatever you choose to do, you keep believing on Christ and your salvation in him.
Good luck and God bless...
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