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Age-old question, no doubt. He never eats supper, waits until he's in bed, then whines that he's hungry and wants a snack. If I tell him no, he acts as if I'm starving him. The kid's never been hungry a day in his life. We usually give in to him; if we don't, he falls asleep and learns nothing, because he doesn't remember in the morning. Lose/lost situation. This is a good example of things in general.
The grand issue is that he's turning into what I can only describe as a pastor's kid (no offense!): privileged (at least more than his parents), sheltered, self-centered, self-absorbed, with none of the delightful lessons mamma & daddy had beaten into them. Now to be fair, the kid's only 3, about to be 4, but really he's ahead of a normal toddler. So (1) I wanna nip this in the bud, and (2) I wanna prep for when he is older and this stuff gets more serious. (Avatar/pic related - he's no Commodus, but a word to the wise is sufficient.)
I foresee a rocky path ahead of me.
How do I stop my kid from being spoiled without actually starving him?
The grand issue is that he's turning into what I can only describe as a pastor's kid (no offense!): privileged (at least more than his parents), sheltered, self-centered, self-absorbed, with none of the delightful lessons mamma & daddy had beaten into them. Now to be fair, the kid's only 3, about to be 4, but really he's ahead of a normal toddler. So (1) I wanna nip this in the bud, and (2) I wanna prep for when he is older and this stuff gets more serious. (Avatar/pic related - he's no Commodus, but a word to the wise is sufficient.)
I foresee a rocky path ahead of me.
How do I stop my kid from being spoiled without actually starving him?