So, me and my ex broke up in April. I'm 18 and he's 17 and we dated over a year. We were each other's first. I cared for him a lot but I guess he just didn't think I was for him and he really wasn't. I need a MAN and not a boy. I want to be taken care of instead of wearing the pants. I now know what I want in a guy but idk how to tell if I'm waiting for something I'll never get.
Like everyone says this guy who I'm friends with is perfect for me. At first I thought he liked me but I don't think he does or he just gave up on me cause I didn't show a whole lot interest in him. I just don't feel that loving feeling with him but I'm comfortable around him and love hugging and talking to him. The only thing is that he's going away to school and then the military. And he just turned 18 and I'm trying to stay away from younger guys since I had a bad experience with that. And right now idk when I'd see my boyfriend cause time kind of ruined my last relationship. He saw me like once or twice a week because he was so busy but his new gf (my "friend") is okay with that. I wasn't cause he didn't give effort in that time apart. I hated being a part time gf. I want a mature relationship.
I'm still young so I know I have time to find the right guy but I don't want to pass the one by thinking too much into it. I feel like I should tho cause I'm trying to avoid a lot of break ups. I take relationships seriously and I don't want to keep giving pieces of my heart away cause I feel like I fall fast for a guy. :/ I want to be adored by my next guy and not pushed to the side. Idk how long to wait. Advice?
Like everyone says this guy who I'm friends with is perfect for me. At first I thought he liked me but I don't think he does or he just gave up on me cause I didn't show a whole lot interest in him. I just don't feel that loving feeling with him but I'm comfortable around him and love hugging and talking to him. The only thing is that he's going away to school and then the military. And he just turned 18 and I'm trying to stay away from younger guys since I had a bad experience with that. And right now idk when I'd see my boyfriend cause time kind of ruined my last relationship. He saw me like once or twice a week because he was so busy but his new gf (my "friend") is okay with that. I wasn't cause he didn't give effort in that time apart. I hated being a part time gf. I want a mature relationship.
I'm still young so I know I have time to find the right guy but I don't want to pass the one by thinking too much into it. I feel like I should tho cause I'm trying to avoid a lot of break ups. I take relationships seriously and I don't want to keep giving pieces of my heart away cause I feel like I fall fast for a guy. :/ I want to be adored by my next guy and not pushed to the side. Idk how long to wait. Advice?