How many heartless people see a homeless person on the street and don't go to the nearest bank and take out a loan to give the man money?
We must stop going to the bank of China to get money for the beggars on the street.(yes, individual or corp, or the beggar in another country.)
This has been my experience this year.
The kids have a friend of their's from school - he graduated with one of my mine. His mother is a loon, and kicked him out over a year ago. I honestly think she has some major mental issues, and told her kids she didn't want to support them anymore...and they had to leave. This was right before graduation.
He has been 'homeless' for over a year now. He works where he can find work, and his friends families - like ours and others - feed him and let him sleep over when there isn't room at the homeless shelter. I took him to apply for food stamps, and government housing. We all pay for things he NEEDS, and doesn't have the support to get himself. He is constantly on the hunt for jobs.
We had to go to a meeting about the housing portion. The entire room was filled to the brim with single mothers - and their children. They were living with their families until they could get their 'housing'. I was so upset, because here is this kid with NOTHING! They were dressed in their best - gold jewelry, etc. They told us to call back around Christmas time - this was a while ago - to see where he is on the waiting list. I have no idea if he will have a place at that time, or if he is going to have to wait longer. My guess? Longer. Winter is coming, and I'm scared for him. We give him what resources we have, but I know its not enough. Thank goodness other friends are helping him as well.
The homeless shelter offers me a place to sleep at night, but doesn't offer anything else. He has a friend now that has a car, and when they sleep in there at times. They said we should hear about the food stamps within 10 days, and that was over a month ago. They still have no answers.
Thankfully, he is the motivated type. He is smart, and does have his HS diploma. I'm learning about the 'system' because of him, and its SAD! Individuals like him fall through the cracks, and if I were guessing...because he doesn't have children in tow. We heard those girls talk about living with their families, and he has no one.
Government 'handouts' as people like to call it isn't what these kids need. It helps of course, but they need to finish their education (most of them need their HS stuff). They MUST insist on some type of training programs, and pushed to find employment once they graduate from that. They don't do that. They don't truly FORCE them to do much of anything. If you aren't forced? They aren't going too.
My education this year with the 'system' was very eye opening. Please pray for "Brandon" if you would. He needs help, and more support than I think we can offer. Its truly heart breaking.