It isn't inherently wrong, but if it's not what makes you happy then he will need to make a choice either way. I think some level of personal fantasy / sexual activity is completely fine and it doesn't bother me if my partner wants to engage in the same. It's hot, for one thing. But if that's where the line stops for you, then that's fine.
I would say that like all habits it is one that should be controlled by the user, not the user controlled by a habit. If any habit gets out of hand in this way, then it is a problem, though that does not mean the habit is inherently wrong. If your chap wants to quit, then there are programs like SAA that might help.
That said, this idea that not engaging in this behaviour makes you somehow not a "real man" - a phrase which is completely meaningless in the first instance - is incorrect.
Depends on who your yard stick is. By world standards , do what you want. By God's standards it is inherently wrong.
Don't you even think with a world of wonderful people out there and the gift of emotional and physical connection it seems so lame that society has reduced to the level of sitting in a room alone with false images of woman that most men would never dream of getting in real life , self pleasuring. Or having to use inappropriate content to actually get off, instead of each other?
That is just sad..
And I stand by my statement..real men connect with real woman. That my friend, is what is really hot!
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