Esther was clearly under headship, while none of the influential were priests or high priests, which corresponds to NT pastors (although they are never distinctively called priests, as they do not distinctively engage in making sacrifices, but as pastors they are called overseers/elders), to whom obedience is enjoined.
Only in the case of Deborah do we see a women actually exercising authority, but which is in extraordinary circumstances in which the children of Israel had again done evil in the sight of the Lord, (Judges 4:1) and God used a women to the shame of the weak leader Barak and Sisera and, as "the journey that thou takest shall not be for thine honour; for the Lord shall sell Sisera into the hand of a woman." (Judges 4:9)
In the NT the Lord chose zero women apostles, nor is there any real proof of any women pastors, despite the attempts to extrapolate some by those who wrest Scriptures. However, not being the quarterback does not mean God sees you as spiritually inferior, and as having no part in ministry, and women are a integral part of the "team" of Christ in other ways than being pastors and teachers over men. Primary among these is being a wife and mother, (1Tim. 5:14) as well as supporting the ministerial work by prayer and care, (Lk. 8:3; 1Tim. 5:10; Acts 1:14; 16:13) and disciplining other women accordingly. (Titus 2:4,5)
Thus Paul wrote, "And I intreat thee also, true yokefellow, help those women which laboured with me in the gospel, with Clement also, and with other my fellowlabourers, whose names are in the book of life."
(Philippians 4:3)