sorry, let say you are a gay Christian, and some of your fellow Christian knows that, and they keep saying things that make you feel uncomfortable, such as it is wrong for you keep saying you are gay Christian, because as Christians, they insist by saying you are a gay Christian, you are identify with your sinful nature, and that they believe you chose to be this way, and the fact you are still is gay is a sign that you are actively indulge your mind ( they make it sounds like you are actively checking other guys out, as if you walked in the room, you are thinking to yourself, well, I wonder who is the cutest guy in the room????)
and they went on insist because of that, you are not qualified to entre certain ministry in the church because you are still gay and it is a sign you are not trying your best?
I often find such assertions incredibly hurtful, because I am not sinning, why cant they just leave me alone? Not only that, they have to resort twisting scripture to discriminate me from serving in some capacity in church.
And you know, this forum is no different, you constantly see users who spewing out this kind of garbage and try to hide behind the fact they are merely stating an opinion, and you see moderators agrees with them?
I could never understand why such hurtful non biblical speech is allowed within Christian community at all?
Don't get wrong, many straight Christians don't agree with this kind garbage that essentially condemns the other person for their sinful nature which they can do nothing about, but maybe because they are never on the receiving end of it, they don't understand how hurtful it can be, so they just say nothing.
I guess I am writing this because I have had enough of having to deal with this kind bullying from some of my fellow Christians, and I want to get it off my chest.
And I guess I also want to let those of you who agree that a person should not be condemns for their sinful nature, to understand what it is like to have to deal with this kind of crap on the first person basis, and when you see this kind of behaviour next time, maybe you can stand up and say something, make your voice heard, because the reality is a bully always thrives in an environment when no one chose to confront them.
what I am saying is if you do not agree with this view, that you need to understands this view is not merely a view , but a view that hurt others, and you need actively doing something about it.
This applies to this forums as well...
This applies to gay non believers too, if church have enough grace to extends to straight non believers, and allow them to attend church and allow God to touch their heart in His own time, the same grace should be extended to gay non believers, not trying to set some of time line for them to repent in our time, not Gods time.
It is like this youtube video I have seen, where this preacher talking about generally church have no problem with straight non believer couples holding hands in church, but when it comes to gay non believers, all hell broke loose, why is that?