Need urgent prayer for mother whos in a crazy rage. >.<

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My mom was drinking some wine and got upset when she seen a old friend on facebook who was friends with our other friends but not us. Even though this person sees my moms posts on our mutual friends walls.

Well it started up some horrible rage. She put down our family and friends. Even my dad and me. Shes blames my dad for not acting like her and not telling people to go to ****. Shes had rage issues and has been doing much better over the years. But with my wedding coming up over seas she is beyond stressed.

On top of it my dad needs rotor cuff (?) surgery and his arm is hurting him. But I can tell hes stressed from how she acts. I can see it in his eyes like he wants to give up and it scares me. I love them both but her rage is draining whats left of our energy. And even worse is I am scared to death to bring my bride here because of my moms actions.

I may be forced to move to her country, even if it means losing my SSI and not having all my meds. I'll likley because worse without some of my meds but I feel I won't have a choice at that point if my mother doens't calm down and learn to let her past go and can't focus on being more of a christian and less like the world. >.<
 

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This is why the LORD has admonished us not to drink "much wine." Alcohol is a depressant. With some people they become a "mean drunk". That means when they drink they say and do some pretty nasty stuff. "It is not what goes into the mouth that defiles a man but that which comes out." As a person gets older they are able to tolerate less and less alcohol. But if they have been drinking a long time it takes more and more to get that "buzz" that makes them feel relaxed. It is a deadly combination. Hard on health, liver, and relationships. If you live in a family that has one or more people with drinking problems it is the unspoken rule that you never talk about it. Denial is the rule.

I pray complete healing for your mother. I pray healing of any emotional scars for your family. God grant you wisdom and patience. In Jesus' name. Amen.
 
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Lord, send peace and help for the Mother, that you can help with her rage and it be removed. Send healing to the Father and bring him peace in his time of stress. Give peace to this individual and allow things to go good for him. I pray for this, in Jesus name, Amen.
 
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Thank you very much.

Sadly she grew up in a home where her parents beat her, molested her and other terrible things. So she drinks to deal with that past. But she doesn't realize it makes her angry. I still pray for her and love her. I've been helping her to get away more from drinking though.
 
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I know of someone that is like this and I feel for you, it can be really hard to love on them and be patient when they are like that. Just keep showing her love and leading by example, as for your bride that might be hard on her, maybe bring her around little by little. I have been in this situation, me being the bride, and it almost ruined my marriage but your mother might not be as bad. I will pray!

Father in Jesus name,
I lift up this man to you in Jesus name give him peace during this time and given him wisdom as to what to do about his mom and his wife. I pray that you would protect his wife from anything that might happen emotionally and make her strong to be able to get to know his mother and understand her. I pray that she would not be affected and that she would show love and mercy on her. I pray that the entire family gain understanding and learn how to handle her in Jesus name. I pray that the mother feels remorse for her words and actions and that she is sorry and learns to control her anger, I pray that she would not push her family away and that instead she would love on them. I pray that his mom would seek you instead of letting her past define her Lord, let her rise above and forgive those who hurt her and start to heal Lord. Let her know that she is healed and does not need to remember that pain from her past, that you are her future and you make the way for her. Lord let her be thankful for her family and let her open her eyes to your truth in Jesus name Amen and Amen!
 
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