OK. I've thought about it a bit.
I'm healthier. A year ago, my diet sucked and I wouldn't have been able to tell you the last time I exercised. Now I'm 30 pounds lighter, in much better shape (though I'm slacking on the exercise thing ATM thanks to a busy December- something I intend to change this week). My diet has completely changed. I cannot stand fried or junkfood anymore.
I feel better about myself too. This is the first time in my life I've been able to look in the mirror and not be completely repulsed by the woman I see looking back at me. As a result, I also feel much more confident than I remember ever feeling.
I've also learned to push toxic people out of my life and stand up for myself. Its not easy, but it feels so freeing to remove yourself from negative and toxic people.
I am also much happier workwise. Last Christmas, I was in a very bad place, emotionally. I just remember being horribly depressed all through Christmas. Crying myself to sleep on Christmas Eve, etc... and my job played a huge role in that. I hated that place. This year I have a job that I really love, where I am respected and appreciated. It makes all the difference.
There was a lot I wanted to accomplish in the last year and didn't, but hey... Who knows what 2013 holds?
wow !
I feel better about myself too. This is the first time in my life I've been able to look in the mirror and not be completely repulsed by the woman I see looking back at me. As a result, I also feel much more confident than I remember ever feeling.
I've also learned to push toxic people out of my life and stand up for myself. Its not easy, but it feels so freeing to remove yourself from negative and toxic people.
Im no longer a smoker
*Comes of out hiding*
Anywho..2012 overall was a good year. Though the hard part for me was having to distance myself from a few people (which includes a couple of family members unfortunately). My bf and I have decided to tie the knot. Which is why I haven't been posting here in the Singles section. I also made a decision to go through with some plans for myself because I no longer want to keep putting them off.
This is also true for me as well. I want to enter 2013 without being surrounded by toxic people, because they can be very emotionally draining, and if you're not careful financially. I also feeling a lot more confident about myself. Recently I joined a fitness club to get in shape.
- Started at a community college.
I didn't know that. Geez.About a month and a half ago my parents separated and will probably get divorced.
Totally sympathize.- No one at school likes me.
- Every girl I like is with someone else.
- I can’t get a job.
Aww, man. I wish you could come to my and my friends' parties. You'd totally love them. You'd fit in with us.Went to a party over the summer and it was a horrible experience.
Always bad.It was an election year
Whoa dude! That's like, a libertarian rite of passage. Mozal tov!I was told I was worse than a communist
Ugh, me too. I've had a year and a half long case of writer's block.Can’t finish my novella
Even after five years and countless treatments, my acne still won’t go away.
I was being somewhat tongue-in-cheek. Notice I put this on both lists. I actually loved college (the learning anyway), but the other things I listed about people not liking me and girls are due to college. It also didn't help my cat died six days before I started and all this stuff with my parents started in the middle of the semester, right after the election, while I was still sick, and just before Thanksgiving. The perfect storm of misery.Why's that bad? I recommend EVERYONE start at a community college.
I was referring to that party with all the Objectivists I went to. If you remember, they didn't attack me, but Ron Paul and libertarians in general.Aww, man. I wish you could come to my and my friends' parties. You'd totally love them. You'd fit in with us.
It was by a Randroid guy I met at the above party. We're friends on Facebook and he exploded when I posted something by Rothbard. I think I mentioned that before.Whoa dude! That's like, a libertarian rite of passage. Mozal tov!
I wrote most of it already. Stopped in the summer and all I've done since was when I wrote less than 900 words a week or two ago.Ugh, me too. I've had a year and a half long case of writer's block.
It's just that I've tried every thing under the sun and it never seems to help even a little.I was 25 when mine went away. Give it some more time.
This year was horrible. During the first half of the year I experienced the worst depression ever in my life. My mental health deteriorated even more.
Next year is my last year to clean my life up, or it's over. This year pushed me into that thinking.
Your life can't possibly worse than mine. Be thankful you're not me
2012 was a hard year for me. At the end of 2011 my mom was diagnosed with terminal cancer. I had to come to grips with that and work on improving our relationship. Her and I had never been close, and I had thought that we never would be. But I realized that in holding on to my hurt and anger towards her I was only hurting myself. I wish I had given it all up years ago. There was a lot of tears shed as we tried to accept the future, little as it may be, that we had together and heal the past. I've learned a lot in that journey and I am still learning. It's been hard but I can say I'm in a much better place now than I was a year ago.
I also started on a weight loss journey this year and have decided to be satisfied with who I am. It's contradictory I know but that's how I've been doing things. I'm tired of letting my low self esteem and doubt hold me down and this last year I've worked really hard to put them behind me.
This has been one of the hardest years of my life, but i'm coming out of it a better person. I never thought I would make it, but the way out is through, and I've made it out stronger.
What is wrong with your life?
It doesn't mean anything if you life happens to be worse than mine, I'll still end it if I want too . I could careless if someone else is suffering more than me.
Burn victims hiding in the darkness, innocent person in prison fearful of being raped again.. someone in Africa holding their aids ridden mother in agony. I can't come close to competeing with their suffering, but it doesn't change he fact that I still want to kill myself.
If there are people in a worse position than you that don't kill themselves why should you. I know it's your life and you can do whatever you want but suicide is a waste of what could have been. Life can always turn around. Things can't stay bad forever. While you're alive there is still hope. That's what keeps me going.