Why are you still single?

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well the answer finally came to me while i was eating a meal at the dinner table in my living room. whilst eating, i looked at my bed in my bedroom and the voice of the Lord came to me and asked me what His word had to say about the bed. (this is keeping in mind an answer was coming to the question of why i was single)

so i told Him, "well it's honourable and undefiled."

then He told me to repeat to Him what the next verse says. so i said..well, Lord you talk about how you will judge whoremongers and adulterers. then it finally clicked. God showed me that He called me to singleness for protection. you see friendlies, i'll be honest. i would make the world's worst husband. i would be unfaithful, abusive, and just evil. so that's why i'm still single.

Am a bit confused. You mean God thinks its easier for you to be single because if you get married you will be an adulterer?
 
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Today I spent a good chunk of time googling Single Christian Forums (I just joined this one) and I noticed that there are dozens and dozens of them... So I started looking at a couple and noticed that a LOT of the single people are in their late 20's... 30's... and older. It makes me kinda sad. Why is it so hard for people to find someone? :confused:

For me, I think it's because I'm kind of a quiet girl. I don't have a bubbly, expressive, go-get-em personality. But it's also because it seems like a lot of people my age have either stopped going to church, or they are already married and having kids already. It is really hard to find a good Christian guy. I get asked out by non-Christian guys often enough, but it seems like a Christian guy is one in a million.

I fall for the wrong people, and the wrong people fall for me. Nothing wrong with them as people, they are just not people I can be with for various reasons.
 
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well the answer finally came to me while i was eating a meal at the dinner table in my living room. whilst eating, i looked at my bed in my bedroom and the voice of the Lord came to me and asked me what His word had to say about the bed. (this is keeping in mind an answer was coming to the question of why i was single)

so i told Him, "well it's honourable and undefiled."

then He told me to repeat to Him what the next verse says. so i said..well, Lord you talk about how you will judge whoremongers and adulterers. then it finally clicked. God showed me that He called me to singleness for protection. you see friendlies, i'll be honest. i would make the world's worst husband. i would be unfaithful, abusive, and just evil. so that's why i'm still single.

This doesn't sound like God to me. I don't know whatever voices you were hearing.
 
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