I would be more upset and hurt by the lies then anything.
Say you kissed a guy who turned out to have been born a girl. You wouldn't feel dirty at all?I just can't bring myself to care if they had a sex change. A sex change has absolutely no bearing on the soul or the spirit, the personality, who somebody is. It's only a physical adjustment to make somebody feel more comfortable in the body they have. Whether they'd told me before or now, it wouldn't make a difference because it just doesn't matter.
It would just be upsetting to find out that for some reason, they felt the need to lie to me about it, when I should be the one person in the world that they can trust with that information. And like I said, I understand the motivation for lying, it's just that I personally try to be accepting and supportive of people who are going through that, because they usually don't find acceptance anywhere else. So to find out that my own spouse felt the need to lie would feel like being stabbed and make me wonder where I went wrong to make them feel I couldn't be trusted.
Annulment based on fraud since it might go the "essence of the marriage", particularly if it impacts reproduction.
Say you kissed a guy who turned out to have been born a girl. You wouldn't feel dirty at all?
Estimates for the incidence of androgen insensitivity syndrome are based on a relatively small population size, and thus are known to be imprecise.[1] CAIS is estimated to occur in 1 out of every 20,400 46,XY births.[100] A nationwide survey in The Netherlands based on patients with genetic confirmation of the diagnosis estimates that the minimal incidence of CAIS is 1 in 99,000.[63] The incidence of PAIS is estimated to be 1 in 130,000.[101] Due to its subtle presentation, MAIS is not typically investigated except in the case of male infertility,[83] and thus its true prevalence is unknown.[2]
Qyöt27;61896179 said:Just because I like playing devil's advocate here, androgen insensitivity syndrome. Let's say someone with this condition wants to undergo reassignment to become a man. Is it still sinful by this measure, or is remaining as they were born (physically female or intersexed, genetically XY) what's sinful? According to this sort of focus, where is the line drawn between being born as one sex or the other? With surgery, their outward appearance would match their chromosomes.
(Assuming, of course, that hormone therapy would even work in this case, given the insensitivity, instead of having to rely solely on surgery)
To quote Wikipedia: