are pretty girls worth it?

GQ Chris said:

Why do I feel like I'm in an Algebra class now, lol.

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Oh my word...that made me laugh...

Of course I'm worth it .

anewday said:

Of course I'm worth it .

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"Entitled" eh?

im worth it too. especially when im in my sunday dress.

Ugly and pretty women are both capable of behaving badly. So why not have a little eye candy. lol, I believe Sketcher said that.

GQ Chris said:

"Entitled" eh?

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Absolutely .

GQ Chris said:

Ugly and pretty women are both capable of behaving badly.

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True story.

Idk, let the pretty girls have their pretty bows; eventually, while you're together, you can show them the real world once you open their heart to love... love puts everything on a whole different perspective.

^That's just the honeymoon phase.

Maybe, or maybe you've actually involved yourself with somebody that likes to evolve; I know plenty of beautiful girls that are always looking to absorb knowledge, experience, and wisdom. There's certainly a lot of petty women that are good looking out there, but, a lot aren't vapid either.

If you don't have the prettiest girl, your friends and colleagues will laugh at you because you don't own the best model. Unless you want to be ashamed for the rest of your life, you better get the best one! (All you need is money)

Pretty and psychotic don't always go hand in hand. It might be tough, but there are definitely pretty girls out there who happen to have A+ personalities. However, if you focus on looks alone, you'll end up being drawn to a girl who thinks the same way. It does sound cliche, but beauty is only skin-deep. While it's nice to have a girl who's easy on the eyes, everyone ages.

Apollo Celestio said:

If you don't have the prettiest girl, your friends and colleagues will laugh at you because you don't own the best model. Unless you want to be ashamed for the rest of your life, you better get the best one! (All you need is money)

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Finally, somebody is making sense around here

Looks don't mean a thing. They fade with age. My filino fiance is very beautiful outside. So when I say shes beautiful people think I am refering to her outside. I say "Well yeah she is beautiful outside, but when I say shes beautiful I am refering to her inside. Because thats what I fell in love with!"

I like purdy gurls

Even though looks aren't everything, they do play a big role in how certain girls develop their attitudes and confidence or lack of it. I think by nature women are very attracted by beauty; so the majority in my opinion are very self aware of their image. God gave male leadership and physical strength while he gave females wisdom and beauty (physical). So because it is an inherent attribute given by God, they cannot help but be affected by it. So yes, a girl that is physically attractive is going to be well aware of her physical gifts and the chances of her attitude being affected by it is very big. Some pretty girls don't really care, don't feel insecure because they're too pretty and they don't know how to handle it, and some are just plain "princess".
As a man however, I love it when a girl knows how pretty she is and she is not afraid to show it, but in a very modest way. I think that's very attractive. However, I'm not saying pretty girls with modesty are the only type of girls I like, far from it. I just described one type of girl that knows how to handle what God has given to her.

It's okay man, you can say that you prefer good looking women here don't gotta be coy about it

ck_psy said:

Are pretty girls worth it?

like seriously.
i dunno.
when I say pretty girls, i mean from a scale of 1 to 10, 5 being average, pretty would be maybe from 7 +.

lately I haven't been so convinced.

it seems that most pretty girls have an attitude of entitlement that most other girls don't seem to have.

they also get more attention from other guys, so there's that 'competition' factor.

of the few relationships I had in high school, i was always able to get a girl more attractive than me in the 'scale'. (ie. i would say i'm a 6 or so attraction wise... at best, and the girl would have been an 8 or so).

back in high school though, these girls didn't really have that attitude of entitlement as they do now in college.

i mean yeah, pretty girls are great, but most of them don't have any inhibitions with regards to what they say or some of their actions.
they can be great trophy wives/girlfriends (kidding here..) but is it worth putting up with their crap?

any thoughts?

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If a pretty girl is worth it to you, to you she's worth it.

ck_psy said:

Are pretty girls worth it?

like seriously.
i dunno.
when I say pretty girls, i mean from a scale of 1 to 10, 5 being average, pretty would be maybe from 7 +.

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Who sets the scale? Are you going by your own personal definition of pretty or is this something someone else told you?

ck_psy said:

lately I haven't been so convinced.

it seems that most pretty girls have an attitude of entitlement that most other girls don't seem to have.

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You mean they know that as a lady they deserve to be treated with respect and dignity and shouldn't have to be defined by who they are with?
Or are they acting all stuck up?
There are two ways to take that and I'm not sure which one you mean. If it's the former, good on them. If the latter, than I would find someone else to waste my time on.

ck_psy said:

they also get more attention from other guys, so there's that 'competition' factor.

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You should fight for the heart of the one you love, whether or not she has a lot of suitors chasing after her, act like she does, cherish her and let her know you do.

ck_psy said:

of the few relationships I had in high school, i was always able to get a girl more attractive than me in the 'scale'. (ie. i would say i'm a 6 or so attraction wise... at best, and the girl would have been an 8 or so).

back in high school though, these girls didn't really have that attitude of entitlement as they do now in college.

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Welcome to the real world or at least the next step of joining it, in High School it was only about how cool you were, now they are looking for someone who has character, and will be a real man. Your "competition" knows that and is working on it.

ck_psy said:

i mean yeah, pretty girls are great, but most of them don't have any inhibitions with regards to what they say or some of their actions.
they can be great trophy wives/girlfriends (kidding here..) but is it worth putting up with their crap?

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They dare to speak their minds? And they even worse dare to discover who they are and who they aren't? Scandelous. Just tell the next one you see "silly woman get back to the silent place of my kitchen and make me a sandwich." that will put her in her place.

Seriously though. If it's love, true love, you will find the drama, the games, the pain, the tears, the sweat, the toil, and the heartache are all worth it. If it's not, then you will move on to someone else.

ck_psy said:

any thoughts?

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Love is not a Fight by Warren Barfield - YouTube

Genuine love is so contrary to human nature that its presence bears witness to an extraordinary power. John Piper
Love must be learned and learned again and again; there is no end to it. Hate needs no instruction, but waits only to be provoked. Katherine Anne Porter


and as an aside... [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Do you love me because I am beautiful, or am I beautiful because you love me?-Oscar Hammerstein in Cinderella[/FONT]


The answer the true answer, the right answer is she is beautiful because I love her. Say what you want about subjective definitions of love. The woman your heart will say "This is the one I will marry" will be beautiful to you. It is your love that will see that beauty, even when it fades away and her hair turns to grey and you're 64(To paraphrase The Beatles) you will still love her, and she will be and always was a 10 to you. She's the only one.

Just my random uncollected thoughts after a day spent at work encouraging my beautiful friend who's been torn down by so many others.

Women, even though I am not aware of doing so, if I ever made one of you feel inferior or added to your complexes, please forgive me, and on behalf of all men; we are dogs, and frogs, and one day with love, you might find a princely gentleman, but just wait for love and don't hang out with frogs and dogs. Fleas and flies are unattractive. Lies and abused women are shameful, don't let them to you, you are worth so much more.

Being "pretty" is a state of mind... nothing more unattractive than a girl who's physically attractive, flaunts it for her own selfish motives, and is highly emotionally shallow and immature....