If WE are the government, as we imagine we are by the mere act of voting, then obviously we DON'T want to exclude ourselves from saying what marriage and the family are.
Another good point from the 'meister! Please don't let it go to your head!
If the government of a state (within the US, or the US as a whole, or any other democratic-republican entity) by definition is "the people," who can speak out through voting, then my question to the advocates of a Libertarian view here is this:
What do you make of the constitutional amendments passed by (34?) states over the last several years? Does that count as "government" intruding into private matters? Here we are not only considering the definition of "marriage" but also of "government."
For even a Libertarian approach to be taken to marriage, mustn't somebody (who?) still define (on behalf of
everyone) what is meant by the term?
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And, in each of those cases, the majority who voted in favor of amendments didn't say "Here's who is, and is not, allowed to enter into legally recognized marriage," but rather "Here is
what marriage is by definition." They didn't say "Gays can't get married" but rather "Marriage is by definition heterosexual and monogamous." Thus, same-sex couples (or opposite-sex groups) aren't disallowed from marriage, because marriage for them is simply impossible by definition.
That's a subtle but key point that (I think) is either ignored or overlooked by people who railed against the passage of such amendments. They say such things are acts of discrimination and bigotry. But discrimination would be to disallow a particular group from having something that is
at least possible for them to have. As I said on another thread (and was evidently wildly misunderstood?), given how those states voted to DEFINE "marriage," we can no more disallow gays from being married, than we can disallow triangles from having four sides. To even ask the question is absurd.