Unfortunately, you are what's known as "unequally yoked". The unsaved person's nature is contrary to yours so you don't mix well. If you were already married, you could do as Paul said, and stay as long as he would have you. Maybe your conduct would get him saved. Since you're not married, even living together really is an appearance of evil. It appears to the church and the outside world that you are sleeping together (even if you are not).
I had a similar circumstance when I first got saved. My girlfriend wanted things as they were and the holiness of the Lord would not allow this. It took a while and under a lot of conviction, I eventually told her I could not stay with her as we were and she basically told me to go to my God (which I did).
You'll be a lot happier to do the same. Ask God what He wants you to do and how and the timing of it all. Ask for favor with your child and He'll work on your behalf. Believe this. Many live in fear of what happens when they leave their man. God will work circumstances that will enable you to please Him. Don't give in to demands for sex because that is serious in the eyes of God and is one of the very reasons why you can't have fellowship together. If he understands that serving God is your number one priority now, he will probably consider his life and what he wants to do. For him, it's not about going to church with you. It's about dedicating his life to Christ.
If you marry an unbeliever know that you're a Christian, you'll be signing up for trouble, so only if he converts and even only then if you feel the peace of God about it, would you stay together. Don't get into fear, but realize that some changes are in order, and God will direct your steps if you keep acknowledging Him.
It might be a good idea to talk to your pastor and get some good godly counsel. It may open a door for you.
I had a similar circumstance when I first got saved. My girlfriend wanted things as they were and the holiness of the Lord would not allow this. It took a while and under a lot of conviction, I eventually told her I could not stay with her as we were and she basically told me to go to my God (which I did).
You'll be a lot happier to do the same. Ask God what He wants you to do and how and the timing of it all. Ask for favor with your child and He'll work on your behalf. Believe this. Many live in fear of what happens when they leave their man. God will work circumstances that will enable you to please Him. Don't give in to demands for sex because that is serious in the eyes of God and is one of the very reasons why you can't have fellowship together. If he understands that serving God is your number one priority now, he will probably consider his life and what he wants to do. For him, it's not about going to church with you. It's about dedicating his life to Christ.
If you marry an unbeliever know that you're a Christian, you'll be signing up for trouble, so only if he converts and even only then if you feel the peace of God about it, would you stay together. Don't get into fear, but realize that some changes are in order, and God will direct your steps if you keep acknowledging Him.
It might be a good idea to talk to your pastor and get some good godly counsel. It may open a door for you.
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