Dear allthingsthroughhim. If you want to be Saved, become " born again," a new and different person, loving and kind to all you you know and meet, follow what Jesus told us in Matthews, chapter22, verses 35-40.
"The first and great Commandment is: Love God with all thy heart, with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. The second is: Love thy neighbour as thyself."
On these two Commandments hang all the Law and the Prophets.
Start by loving and caring for your neighbour, with everything you say or do, let your words be kind and helpful, and remember that God made us all in His image, God loves us all and God wants us all to be His loving children/sons and daughters. God will see our sincere efforts, and God will approve and bless us.
Jesus will give us His Love and Joy, and the Holy Spirit will empower us with His Love, also. ( Jesus taught us to "Ask and receive," Matthew 7, verses 7-8)
Then we thank God and share all Love and Joy with all around us. It might not be easy to start with, but IT CAN BE DONE, and our Heavenly Father wants loving and caring children.
We might stumble and forget at times, but then we get up, and carry on to do God`s Will. We can ask God for forgiveness again and again, and God will forgive us, as we will forgive others. Jesus is ever ready to lead and guide us back to God, where we came from, in fact: Jesus is THE WAY.
I say this with love, allthingsthroughhim. Greetings from Emmy, your sister in Christ.