It is alcohol's potential for taking away ones self control that makes it most dangerous and it
is very deceiving.I used to get drunk when I was fighting a losing battle with my depression and bitterness due to decades of bullying.It made things so much worse and my poor wife was very worried about me and felt so helpless.It causes so much misery.I have a very occasional drink now and usually just the one.
I don't know where the idea that one can 'drink to forget' comes from.It had the exact opposite effect on me and usually the memories would be bad ones and bitterness took hold, strengthened by the drink.
Now a glass of wine is an occasional treat and it's been quite a while since my wife and I had a glass but since it is our 17th anniversary this week
,we will be having such a treat.
Thanks be to our wonderful Lord who has brought my wife and I together and has taken away my bitterness and anguish.
He has washed away my sins and given me a new nature and the peace that the world cannot give.
I'd much rather be filled with the spirit than drink to excess.