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Heh. If I waited for someone to crush on me before I got out of my funks, I'd be depressed pretty much forever.

I just need to stop going to a particular store where a particular woman works as a cashier, really. I did have a crush on her, once upon a time. Thankfully, a short one. But it still reminds me of just how hopelessly single I am when I see her, and then it takes me a couple of days to get over it.
 
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Heh. If I waited for someone to crush on me before I got out of my funks, I'd be depressed pretty much forever.

I just need to stop going to a particular store where a particular woman works as a cashier, really. I did have a crush on her, once upon a time. Thankfully, a short one. But it still reminds me of just how hopelessly single I am when I see her, and then it takes me a couple of days to get over it.

If I stopped going to places where I was reminded of that, I'd become a legitimate hermit.
 
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I think the worst part for me is that now that I'm twenty-seven, people have stopped saying "It's okay, you've got time." Now my parents are starting to wonder if there's something wrong with me that's preventing me from finding a woman. I've been trying to convince them for the past six years that it's because I'm disabled.

I cant stand when people say, "No boyfriend yet? Why?". If I knew I'm sure I wouldnt be single. :doh:
 
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I think the worst part for me is that now that I'm twenty-seven, people have stopped saying "It's okay, you've got time." Now my parents are starting to wonder if there's something wrong with me that's preventing me from finding a woman. I've been trying to convince them for the past six years that it's because I'm disabled.

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You're not alone Rob. I'll be 29 this year and well I haven't even had my first bf.

I know people in there 30's that aren't with anybody and some in their mid 30's that just have gotten married.

The right girl will not mind your disability.:)
In fact, a handful of some guys I've liked in the past has had a disability.

I understand where you're coming from though. I feel the same way about my weight....
 
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You're not alone Rob. I'll be 29 this year and well I haven't even had my first bf.

I know people in there 30's that aren't with anybody and some in their mid 30's that just have gotten married.

The right girl will not mind your disability.:) In fact, a handful of some guys I've liked in the past has had a disability.

I understand where you're coming from though. I feel the same way about my weight....

^ Same exact feeling.
 
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You're not alone Rob. I'll be 29 this year and well I haven't even had my first bf.

I know people in there 30's that aren't with anybody and some in their mid 30's that just have gotten married.

The right girl will not mind your disability.:)
In fact, a handful of some guys I've liked in the past has had a disability.

I understand where you're coming from though. I feel the same way about my weight....
Yeah, but you have been making progress with that, Crystal.:thumbsup: Just keep at it!
 
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As a single person, can most of you say that you are happy?
I'm miserable. :sadd: But I also know that there are more important priorities right now than getting into a relationship. :)
 
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I'm happy :)

That's good :)

In truth I can say I have my ups and downs, but I can't say that my happiness counts on the the fact that I have someone in my life. It's what I do with my life that makes me happy.

This is how I feel, sometimes I have ups and downs, but for the most part I am happy with where I'm at.

I'm miserable. :sadd: But I also know that there are more important priorities right now than getting into a relationship. :)

:( Aw. Hope you're not miserable for long!
 
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As a single person, can most of you say that you are happy?

Usually - and generally - yes. Right now I'm depressed, but that's not always so. But being happy doesn't mean I'm happy about being single. I just treat it as one of the many things that I would like to change but know I can't, and in spite of which I have learned to have a fulfilling life.
 
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I'm not worried about being crushless. I mean for a while I went through a time when I was really lonely and all I could think about was that there must be another half of me fluttering in the wind somewhere(lame poetic metaphor for I really wanted a boyfriend XD ) but not so much now. I actually prayed about it not long ago and got that weird feeling that god had something planned and I just needed to shut up and be patient XD
 
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As a single person, can most of you say that you are happy?

I'm happier single, most of the time; the instances where i'm not happy rarely relate to being unattached.

Fortunately I rarely have to worry about being the focus of a long-lasting crush, i'm pretty skilled at squashing the emotions of others until they realise i'd suck their very soul dry :cool:.
 
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