Guys, teach me some game

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You must not think I've tried... how did you and I stop talking to each other Sarah? We just sort of stopped talking, I was with Robyna right after that...

Honestly, the only time I ever made any crushing blows was when these girls threw fits and started calling me out... so, like you said about respect, I simply gave back what I was getting.
The only talking we did was rather casual (i.e. music, jobs, etc). I do remember you asking me for a pic, which I do not do, but that's about it. Not sure what connection is being drawn here.

Well, I wasn't one of them, so I wouldn't know. I just seem to remember saying you simply lost interest in them.
 
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I don't know how many times I've told people on this forum that when I'm interested, sometimes I'll never be fully interested; and they've all seen how things go down with one of these 'ladies'... I've always said that my love is hard to get, but that I know how to get with women.

There's been only one, absolutely only one girl on here, that I immediately fell in-love with... and I was like, screw this, I've gotta play this the right way and not tell her until we're at that stage in our relationship; I even told her how smooth I wanted to be to her when we talked for the first time (I told her I was going out to party, and I did, so I didn't seem like I was too much of a geek), how debonair I wanted to seem... in the end, I don't know if it mattered or not (but, I knew I needed to play it cool because of all of my experience).
 
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The only talking we did was rather casual (i.e. music, jobs, etc). I do remember you asking me for a pic, which I do not do, but that's about it. Not sure what connection is being drawn here.

Well, I wasn't one of them, so I wouldn't know. I just seem to remember saying you simply lost interest in them.

Yep, I wanted to see a picture of you (nothing sexually was ever asked); just a picture of you.

I'm just saying, look, that's how I usually try to end things; sometimes I have to use alternate measures when they get incredibly persistent...
 
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If you have to brag on the internet about your success with women it's because the only woman you could get in real life charges 30 bucks an hour and leaves you with herpes as a reminder of the encounter. It's just the truth. I find no honor in being a player, but if one were he'd be busy with women in real life. Not sending text over the internet.

It's like being a magician, only the crappy ones will tell you how they do the tricks. The good ones don't because there's value there. When you're sure your game has value you don't need pointless accolades on message boards because you've got notches on your headboard. It's only when you don't that you need to resort to external validation.
 
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chuck77 said:
Hmmm...advice that works. Well, we're only trying to meet that one special lady. Not impress all women everywhere. So no game is needed IMO. Be yourself, follow God's leading and in him you will find everything you need, including a wife. Which is what we ultimatly want.

But...IF you can impress a lot of women,you will have MORE choices.That special lady may not notice you if NONE of the other women around does not notices you. I have found that women notice me,and smile at me more,when I am WITH a woman,than if I was by myself.
As an analogy,if a Chevy was next to a Benz,I am sure that the Benz would get more looks and more potiential buyers,than the Chevy.

Interesting. Well, let's play this out for fun.

Man with no game: Dear God, i'm really lacking game and want to meet a woman I can marry, can you help me?

God: Sure child, but first get all the rest of the other women you're not going to marry to notice you, then I can help. I mean, I am God Almighty but still...TTYL.

Man with no game: :(
 
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Interesting. Well, let's play this out for fun.

Man with no game: Dear God, i'm really lacking game and want to meet a woman I can marry, can you help me?

God: Sure child, but first get all the rest of the other women you're not going to marry to notice you, then I can help, TTYL.

Man with no game: :(

^_^^_^^_^^_^^_^^_^^_^

I am terribly sorry for your misfortune.
 
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There are many more ways to deceive than out right lying.

one way is to leave out important details you know would make a difference to her.

another way is to tell her so much that she misses those same important details.

there are a lot more, but I think this is sufficient.
 
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I didn't even talk with most of these girls for more than a week on a personal basis... maybe a couple weeks. The only person I've ever talked to day-in, day-out, for three months basically was Sieben...

I talk to Joy7crf fairly regularly, she knows I'm still in-love with 'Sieben', but we still chat and get along.
 
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BTW, in case anybody's ever wondered, it's guys like him that make me hate men so much. I'm sure there's other women who feel the same way (although I'm sure none are on this forum).

But....but ALL men are not alike. Why,in the name of heaven,must I pay for the sins of players? Women misstreat or reject me because of some jerk that they have met in their past.

You are right about this guy. As the song goes, "Thunder only happens when its raining. Players ONLY love you when they're PLAYING. Women,they will come and they will go. When the rain washes you clean,you'll know,you will know"
 
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If you have to brag on the internet about your success with women it's because the only woman you could get in real life charges 30 bucks an hour and leaves you with herpes as a reminder of the encounter. It's just the truth. I find no honor in being a player, but if one were he'd be busy with women in real life. Not sending text over the internet.

It's like being a magician, only the crappy ones will tell you how they do the tricks. The good ones don't because there's value there. When you're sure your game has value you don't need pointless accolades on message boards because you've got notches on your headboard. It's only when you don't that you need to resort to external validation.

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I need a good crash-course. I have to catch up to other people's levels because I'm being left behind.

I'm tired of being inferior.

What game are you talking about?

You telling us you can't actually talk to a woman?
You can't make her laugh?
You can't actively pursue her naturally?
You can't flirt?

I do believe there is always a game per say. Game meaning the act of pursuit. Yet, it should come quite natural because of our species regardless of how complex it can be at times. How do you expect anyone to help you? You already know the answers. You have to be confident. You have to make her laugh. You have to converse. You have to take chances for her and with her. You have to be social and that is not to tap into the whole discussion about introvert vs. extrovert. All that discussion is, is another reason for people to act/talk like a narcissist. Plus, how do you expect anyone else to guide you. My pursuit is based on very simplistic things. Physical attraction and if my desire to get her is beyond a simple...ooo she is cute, pursue her the best way I can. If she responds positively revel in it. If she doesn't forget her.

It shouldn't be about deception. It shouldn't be about loosening up morals. It shouldn't be about loosening up the standard of quality of people to go after. It shouldn't be about too many drinks and too many Trojan wars. It shouldn't be about playing people. Thankfully...it isn't about all that.

So, the best answer I can give is get over yourself and just act natural. You will always have more failures than successes...that is the whole point of dating because you are trying to find that one that lasts longer than the rest. The more you do not try and possibly fail the longer you won't figure it out. You will have try and tweak what you fail in and hold strong to what works.
 
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Blind Post, so if it has been posted before, it's worth watching again.

Don Draper's guide to picking up women - Videolog Don Draper's Guide to Picking Up Women.

Yes it has adult themes, so if you are easily offended don't watch. and I only linked to it because it says what needs to be said.
 
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There is a lot of truth in what the PandaBeast says.

Yes, because I pay for hookers lol sounds pretty legit to me :thumbsup: and, lol, even worse... $30 hookers :D

What's even better about that, is that I've continually said, countless of times, that I've got no desire to go out and do that to women again; sounds like he mad, and you mad too :p
 
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Yes, because I pay for hookers lol sounds pretty legit to me :thumbsup: and, lol, even worse... $30 hookers :D

What's even better about that, is that I've continually said, countless of times, that I've got no desire to go out and do that to women again; sounds like he mad, and you mad too :p

That you have herpes? No...I give you one of these that you can live with it

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