Does this make me look fat? Should he lie or tell the truth? What if the truth is her fat makes her look fat?
I don't really get this. I can tell if an outfit is flattering on me or not. If I were to ask that question, I wouldn't be asking because I really don't know but because I'm fishing for a compliment. LOL. That's why I don't ask it. I can tell when I look good or notsomuch, and I don't want my h to feel backed into a corner, scrambling for the perfect thing to say on the spot!
Try telling your wife that she always looks beautiful to you no matter what she's wearing. She's a big girl and can figure out what to wear on her own. She probably just wants to know that she looks good to you. JMHO.
I agree it is asked when you really want a compliment as you know what looks good on you.
I guess Im differnt that way..I dont want to be told I look good even if I dont..I hate games..and thats a game to me..its not true anyway so why tippy around the tulips I'de rather not even discuss it at that point and let it not even be about my looks..Havign said that ..Im all for "I am still ATTRACTED to you even when you are not all dolled up..or look tired..or have a breakout..or somethign about your body has changed that YOU dont like..thats different than saying you look great even if you know at the moment you arent exibiting your normal shiny physical SELF! LOL!!!
Dallas
Does this make me look fat? Should he lie or tell the truth? What if the truth is her fat makes her look fat?
Blind post.
It depends on the husband, and it depends on the wife.