See - this is what I have a huge problem with regarding the OSAS belief. The extreme position on this is that if someone "accepted" Jesus then they are good to go despite what their life looks like. In an effort to not allow works to take too important of a position - we throw it away as a measuring stick.
First, I want to reference my other post, which I think is important to this topic:
http://www.christianforums.com/t7630501-post59806257/#post59806257
Second, there is the easy OSAS way out: were they really saved in the first place? And I don't say this in an aloof manner, but I mean it seriously. So perhaps it will come out in our talks herein.
If someone responds to the 34th verse of 'Just As I Am' when they were 9 years old... and then lives a life of sin - ignoring God completely for the rest of their life... then it really would be an insult to place them in heaven (like the world always seems to do).
Third, I'd like to compliment my second with my "version" of Irresistible Grace. No I'm not Calvinistic in any shape. But I've always thougth that major Christian denominations can't have it all wrong -- in other words, where did they get the concepts that they believe in? A complete left turn and they got lost? Or was it because the concept has SOME level of truth in it?
So at this point, to review my position, and to exemplify it: (1) Sin is wrong and DOES affect us; just not salvifically. We need to repent of sin and get back in God's will. (2) It is very easy to say "Lord, come into my heart." It is another thing to mean it. I think people can intellectually act like a Christian and seem to actually be -- but as scripture tells us: their fruit will tell us the truth about them; and they may hide some of that truth for a very long time, but eventually their fruit will show. (A corollary to this is that there are some awesome atheists that put some Christians to shame when it comes to what looks like fruit.) And (3) if God calls, and we accept His gift, He then will regenerate our soul. We once were sinners but now we are saved by Grace. By Grace. By Grace. And in that regeneration we have been turned from a man who can do no good to a man who can and is instructed to seek after righteousness. In fact, God's Love is so "irresistable" that I think we will truly seek after Him. It doesn't mean that we won't go sideways (Peter still had an anger problem all through Jesus' earthly ministry; Paul admits that the sin in him does things that he does not want to do. Hmmm: "want to do." He wants to do good. He is now capable of seeking righteousness.
So, seriously, if one "gets saved?" but spends the majority of the rest of their life "ignoring God completely" then their fruit (as the Bible tells us) does not prove their heart, nor does it prove their conversion. They were never saved to begin with.
After living life rejecting God - they would not enjoy Eternal Life with Him anyway.
Now having given you an understanding of why I say this: I agree perfectly with you.
Whitney Houston was a known drug addict and publicly struggled with alcohol abuse. Is it judgmental for me to be concerned that there are people teaching that she went to Heaven (and in essence you can live like that and go as well!)?
I don't know Whitney personally. I do know that I've read stories about her returning to her church, singing there, worshipping there. I know that her last public song choice was "Jesus loves me this I know."
Hmm. dkbwarrior spent time in prison (he has not endorsed my position; I use his testimony only as an example.
See here). Do we get concerned that he is teaching and preaching?? Do we think that he will be in Heaven? I do. Why? His fruit is real. Even if he takes a left turn tomorrow, God will not let him go.
Might as well go ahead and open this can up... it brings ALOT of questions into it... such as:
judgement vs discernment
holiness vs. faith
What do you guys think???
Judgement of sin will happen. For the lost such judgement can cause sickness in this life (see Jehoram, 2 Chronicles 21:18-19) and eternal damnation. For the Chrisitian it is chastisement. Our sin will affect us and bring the curse; God will chastise us to get our attention; He will love us back onto the right track.
Discernment is a gift and the Holy Spirit will help you determine good and bad people to be with, good and bad situations to engage in. We need to be open to it, listen to it, and act upon it.
Holiness is what God imputes to us. We are to live righteously and it is God's Grace that allows us to do this. We are slaves of righteousness for holiness.
Faith is also given to us by God. It comes by hearing and hearing the Word of God. Our faith in Him will lead us into the righteousness that He clothes us in. Our faith is something that we need to use, and we need to exercise. If we don't, it will become little and weak. This will not cause God to let us go; but He will continue to hold and embrace us, chastising us if needed, and whispering in a small, still voice to come home. To get back on the right track.
(Maybe best to start a different tread about this one...)
Actually I think this is right on target as a direction for the OP to take, so I don't mind keeping it here. Your choice. (I see you took the Whitney question there already....cool.)