Hi everyone!
I've never really posted in this forum before so forgive me for barging in like this. I've always been a pessimist and a worrier by nature but one thing I really want to do in 2012 is to overcome this. Self-loathing and negative thoughts were a fun trend but after 26 years I'm beginning to see the damage they really do: in my walk with God, my relationships, my job, etc.
Obviously God has to help me with this and I know that time in prayer and in His word are critical; there's no other way to do it. Still, I know that there are some here who have overcome this and I would like to know what you did and any tips you may have. I'm not expecting an overnight fix but I've never loved myself or felt worthwhile before and I would love to know what it feels like. How do I stay positive? Is it possible for me to become a happier and more positive person?
Thanks to anyone who's willing to give input. God bless.
I've never really posted in this forum before so forgive me for barging in like this. I've always been a pessimist and a worrier by nature but one thing I really want to do in 2012 is to overcome this. Self-loathing and negative thoughts were a fun trend but after 26 years I'm beginning to see the damage they really do: in my walk with God, my relationships, my job, etc.
Obviously God has to help me with this and I know that time in prayer and in His word are critical; there's no other way to do it. Still, I know that there are some here who have overcome this and I would like to know what you did and any tips you may have. I'm not expecting an overnight fix but I've never loved myself or felt worthwhile before and I would love to know what it feels like. How do I stay positive? Is it possible for me to become a happier and more positive person?
Thanks to anyone who's willing to give input. God bless.