Getting offended... for the sake of getting offended.
As far as I'm aware, the United States is a pretty patriotic nation- probably the most patriotic.
Patriotism is a religion here, unfortunately.
It's pretty alien to me, considering most of school mates didn't know more than one line of God Save the Queen, or even that it is the national anthem.
Most of us don't know our national anthem either
But she's making a big deal over nothing. She doesn't have to love America, but she is living there. And until she isn't, she should at least respect the patriotism exerted by the great majority of Americans. Reciting the Pledge of Allegiance won't do her child any harm. It has no xenophobic or racist sentiment, as far as I'm aware.
When I was in school, I never did the pledge, and no one ever noticed. I just thought it was stupid. I often even did the Nazi arm salute thing,
just to see if anyone would notice, no one ever did. I'm Jewish is so that ok btw. Nowadays, I clearly have a 'no love' policy for my country, and I do wish I could live elsewhere. And unfortunately, patriotism in this country often/usually does involve xenophobia or racism, hence the stupid idea we have here of 'American exceptionalism.'
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