I am new to this thread and need some advice ,I have only been married going on six months now how do you make a marriage work ,when your husband during an arguement gets physical with you ?
You should call the free hotlines for abused women. They can give you the best advice as to your rights, and they can also offer you a safe place. I don't care what "physical" means. Whether it's pushing, slapping, or kicking - it's all abuse - and it is not your wifely duty or responsibility to put up with abuse.I am new to this thread and need some advice ,I have only been married going on six months now how do you make a marriage work ,when your husband during an arguement gets physical with you ?
Were you aware of this physical behaviour before you married him??
Or did it just pop up in the 6 months you've been married?
Because if he was an 'angel' beforehand and just 6 months into the marriage is already shoving you around - I'd say leave before he does some serious damage.
No woman deserves to live in fear of being physically hurt by their spouse.
- Niff
She never said he hits her what if she shoves him and he pushes her back. You are assuming a lot.
Any sort of violence has no place in a marriage. Even if I pushed my husband (which obviously no woman should do), I know he'd never push back. There is a line a man should never cross.
I am new to this thread and need some advice ,I have only been married going on six months now how do you make a marriage work ,when your husband during an arguement gets physical with you ?
My bad my bad I was phone posting I missed that part sorry jump down my throat.RE-READ The OP's original post!!!!! SHE said "How do you make a marriage work when in an argument your husband gets physical with you?"
That's not really assuming anything. I think YOU are the one assuming here..........
ok by physical I mean choking, throwing you across the room and punching walls fans blacking out
Call an abused women hotline, find a safe shelter, pack up your things while he's out of the house and leave.
If a friend that you cared deeply about asked you this question, would you truly want them to remain in the marriage another moment to be abused any more?
In this case, the answer to your question is: you don't. You leave and do not return unless that behavior is 100% gone.
My opinion, of course.
Call an abused woman hotline, when he is not home, pack your things and get out. No one should be in fear for their life from their spouse, parents, relatives, coworkers - whatsoever. That is not a normal relationship.