iambren
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Hello. In response to the OP I can think of reasons a man would act that way yet I can't personally relate to it (two weeks off work and I go bonkers!).
--A man's testosterone declines with age, a fact. If it declines precipitously the man may lose his overall drive in life.
--He may have been in a demanding relationship or highly stressful demanding situation where he gives up "Everybody off my back; I'm cruisin'".
--He may have been babied all his life so operates out of that dysfunctional pattern.
--His personality just might be more passive, always has been and if a woman comes along to enable that the true self emerges.
These are not meant to be excuses. God's Word clearly says that if a man does not provide he is worse than an infidel. If it's physical, like depression, he can get medication. If it's a soul issue he needs to be confronted.
--A man's testosterone declines with age, a fact. If it declines precipitously the man may lose his overall drive in life.
--He may have been in a demanding relationship or highly stressful demanding situation where he gives up "Everybody off my back; I'm cruisin'".
--He may have been babied all his life so operates out of that dysfunctional pattern.
--His personality just might be more passive, always has been and if a woman comes along to enable that the true self emerges.
These are not meant to be excuses. God's Word clearly says that if a man does not provide he is worse than an infidel. If it's physical, like depression, he can get medication. If it's a soul issue he needs to be confronted.
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